8 Common Misconceptions About Bitcoin

Bitcoin

Bitcoin’s recent price surge attracted a lot of attention, including the attention of the mainstream media, and as people struggle to understand and explain this strange new digital currency, they formed a number of misconceptions about it. I will try to address seven of the common ones in this piece.

1. “It’s not a currency”

Since a currency, as it is widely understood, is basically anything that can be used as a means of exchange for goods and services, and Bitcoin is used for that purpose, it stands to reason that Bitcoin is a currency. However, that’s not all Bitcoin is, and there actually wasn’t anything quite like this before. This is why pigeonholing it into any of the established categories isn’t very wise.

Bitcoin is both a currency and a payment system, with one being inseparable from the other. Its purposes are in a kind of symbiotic relationship. Its value as a payment system feeds its value as a currency, and vice versa. And the fact that it is something new, perhaps a new category of money, isn’t necessarily a bad thing. You can call it the evolution of money.

2. “It has no backing”

The argument goes that Bitcoin is basically conjured out of thin air, and being a “virtual” currency, actually isn’t even real. This argument essentially equates Bitcoin to World of Warcraft gold, EVE Online ISK, or Linden Dollars – in other words it’s useless play money.

First of all, it is quite shortsighted to think even of these virtual world currencies as worthless since they obviously aren’t without value to the many people using them for the specific purposes for which they are useful. If a person assigns value to a particular virtual good or service, even if it exists merely within the confines of what is essentially a game, then a currency which allows him to acquire those goods has value to such a person. Value in general is a subjective thing, and if bitcoin demonstrates that it has value to a lot of people then it is not worthless.

Furthermore, Bitcoin definitely is not conjured out of thin air. That’s what the whole process of mining is all about! In order to make a bitcoin come into existence it is not enough to just type a random number on a screen and press enter in some sort of a program. Instead, the program joins in the process of solving highly complicated mathematical problems which have the purpose of strengthening the cryptography of the entire Bitcoin system, thereby strengthening the security of all Bitcoin users. This is the utility value of Bitcoin, in addition to all of the other characteristics that make it an attractive payment system.

And in order to be able to do that it expends significant amounts of electricity. Thus if you’re looking for a real world source of Bitcoins it is electricity, or rather, energy. Between matter (physical tangible things) and energy, there really isn’t a fundamental difference. Just ask Einstein!

I personally find it somewhat laughable when people pose this critique against Bitcoin and immediately compare it to the US Dollar, for example, which is “backed” by the might and power of the US Government. It seems there’s a rather widespread cultural blind spot that has developed among the masses which prevents people from seeing the “backing” of the US Government as a liability rather than anything to be happy and secure about.

The problem is trust, and the fact is that this government which so many trusted, is giving the federal reserve the power to print as much money as they please, literally by typing up numbers on a computer screen in accordance to what they, the masters of the economy, believe to be prudent. I don’t get how does this situation make people feel safe and secure. This fact, that the US Government and the fed control our money, has played a crucial role in just about every recession we’ve had in recent decades, including the 2008 financial crisis, and the upcoming inevitable crash which they won’t be able to maneuver out of by simply printing up stimulus packages (it will kill the dollar).

Bitcoin is, when you understand these facts, actually better backed in the long term than the US dollar or other fiat currencies. It has actual energy behind it, utility value, and cannot be inflated at will. When you also understand that value is subjective, and that many people value things like trust, security, privacy, and other things provided by Bitcoin, that also gives bitcoin the backing it needs to be a worthy currency. In comparison US dollar is only numbers on the screen representing someone’s debt to some bank, and requires you to trust a centralized system.

3. “It is valued too high”

If you consider the fact that there will only ever be 21 million bitcoins (built in scarcity), and that the increasing difficulty in mining it resembles the increasing difficulty in mining natural metals such as gold, this misconception should be easily answered. The more people enter the bitcoin economy the more valuable it will be relative to the dollar economy. If the whole world were to join in, the current value of around $100 to $130  is actually fantastically undervalued. Bitcoin wouldn’t even be on the same playing field. USD would look worthless in comparison.

In other words, it’s not valued too high. It is valued too low, albeit at this point this is probably where it should be, during its volatile stage as the word is still spreading, people are still struggling to understand it, and the infrastructure is still being established and polished up. But when it stabilizes at its real value it should be orders of magnitude worth more than it is now relative to USD.

As a side note, you might think this scarcity presents another problem; how would billions of people trade with only 21 million bitcoins. The answer is that bitcoins can be subdivided into fractions of bitcoins such as microbitcoins or nanobitcoins. When one bitcoin becomes too valuable things that cost far less can be traded in these smaller units of bitcoin. This is similar to how we have cents for dollars and euros, or how you can trade in grams of gold instead of just kilograms or ounces. You can’t subdivide dollar cents like this, which presents a necessity for there to be many more dollars than bitcoins, but that opens the doors to inflation and economic manipulation since there is a central authority that prints these new dollars that can easily abuse this power.

4. “You can mainly buy drugs and other illegal goods with it”

I’ve seen certain talking heads shamelessly repeat this lie in the media multiple times in a way that suggests embarrassing ignorance at best and downright dishonesty at worst; that Bitcoins are mainly used to buy illegal drugs and for other types of shady business. You only need to look at the sizeable list of places that accept bitcoins, the fact that major brands like Reddit, WordPress, Namecheap, and others accept it, to see how far from truth this claim is.

You can buy just about anything with bitcoins, and many are. Drugs are just a small subset of it. The same actually holds true for cash in other currencies. You can buy drugs with dollars and euros as well, yet that doesn’t make people think of these currencies as “shady”, since you can obviously buy many other things with them that don’t have any connotations with shady business. If you think something still can’t be bought with bitcoins that you can buy with dollars, perhaps it’s an opportunity to provide it yourself and make some of your own bitcoins.

5. “It appeals mainly to libertarian anarchists”

While there is some truth to this claim, it isn’t true that Bitcoin appeals only to libertarian leaning people. There are socialist anarchists across Europe who are heeding its arrival for their own reasons, not so much tied to libertarian free market ideals.

Beyond political affiliations people across Europe find it appealing due to its decentralized nature, in the face of the crisis that is hitting the eurozone as governments bail out banks and entire countries on its back. It’s no coincidence, for example, that the cypriot collapse has been widely reported as one of the fuels of the recent Bitcoin price spike. People are losing trust in currencies which are tied to a system that looks increasingly unstable.

Then there’s the purely practical appeal. A good example are merchants which see Bitcoin as a quick and convenient payment method that they can offer to their customers without fear of chargebacks, and high processing fees. Customers find it appealing for the privacy, borderlessness, and ease of use.

In other words, Bitcoin appeals to people of various politicial affiliations, but also for reasons that go beyond politics in general.

6. “It will be heavily regulated and/or shut down”

There may be some sense in the expectation that governments will try to regulate or shut down Bitcoin. From the perspective of those with vested interests in the current system it is a threat. It is easy for them to trump up associations between bitcoin and money laundering, tax evasion, and drug dealing to make it seem as if Bitcoin is mainly enabling criminal enterprises, and use this as an excuse to regulate or shut it down.

The trouble is, it can’t really be shut down, and it doesn’t lend itself easily to regulation. This again has to do with its decentralized nature. It isn’t based in any single country, and doesn’t have a single governing body. In that sense it is much like the internet itself. Even if one country regulated it, people can still extremely easily bypass it through other countries. Furthermore, the encryption and the ability to conduct untraceable transactions make it very difficult to enforce any would be regulations. How can you control what you cannot see?

Finally, even if they somehow banned bitcoin, it is open source software, and the whole system can easily be forked to create an alternative that the government hasn’t even begun to tackle yet.

So it looks extremely unlikely that successful regulation or even banning of Bitcoin is even possible.

7. “It is completely anonymous”

Bitcoin actually doesn’t insure complete anonymity as bitcoin transactions technically aren’t anonymous. Rather they are pseudonymous, with addresses acting as pseudonyms, and transactions between these addresses being public. What it does is allow you to be as anonymous as you wish, that is, it enables you to take control over your privacy. How private your transactions will be, and how easily traceable to you, will depend on how you use it.

For example, if you put up an address on a web page related to you, accepting payments or donations to it, then it will be rather obvious that the bitcoins coming into that address are being paid to you. Generally, if you want to ensure the complete anonymity and untraceability of your transactions you should use a new address for each new transaction, and the bitcoin system makes that pretty easy to do. If each transaction is tied to a new address it will be next to impossible to tell that this new address, or all the other addresses you used, actually belong to you.

8. “It is too difficult to use”

Setting up an offline wallet may be a bit bothersome, I will grant that, but there are some options which make it more straightforward. Namely, the Electrum bitcoin wallet doesn’t require you to download gigabytes of the constantly growing blockchain before you can actually use it to transact. Instead it uses blockchain copies already available online elsewhere. It also backs up your wallet to one of a number of secure servers. Only thing you absolutely have to remember is your passphrase.

But there is a number of online wallets, such as blockchain.info, which make it as easy to use as PayPal, and even easier since it won’t require you to send in copies of your government IDs and whatnot in order to become a verified account holder and be able to take full advantage of it. It also features one click backups of your wallet to specified destinations, including email, and can automatically backup your wallet after every change made to it (that is, after every transaction). Creating new addresses for new transactions is also super easy.

Even buying bitcoins generally isn’t much harder than exchanging into any other currencies, with deposit options including everything from direct deposits and wire transfers to paypal via special channels. Check out our introductory guide to bitcoin for more information.

Source: http://www.tech-faq.com

15 Reasons to Become an Entrepreneur

Top 15 Biggest Perks of Entrepreneurship

The Perks of Being An EntrepreneurQUESTION: WHAT IS THE BIGGEST PERK OF OWNING YOUR OWN BUSINESS?

Question by: Ashley

LIFESTYLE OF CHOICE

“Some people value creative freedom above all else. Some value work/life balance. Still others have their eye on the big bucks. For me, success is the ability to be picky about the projects I take on while still making enough money to pay the bills…all on a part-time schedule that leaves time for myself and my family. Entrepreneurship has made that flexibility possible.”

- Steph Auteri | career coach, writer, and editor, Word Nerd Pro

IN GOOD COMPANY

“In the corporate environment you often have limited control over who you work with or for, and it can be draining at best. The hands down No. 1 perk of owning my own business is working with only the best people. Surrounding myself with great people impacts my life even beyond working hours — no more dreading Monday mornings or that client call in the afternoon!”

FLEXIBILITY IS KING

“The biggest perk of owning my own business is the flexibility. Having two young children, the ability to work non-traditional hours is invaluable. It means I can attend a recital from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. and work an extra two hours at night, when most corporate employees are watching American Idol.”

- Alexandra Levit | President and Founder, Inspiration at Work

SURROUNDED BY GREAT PEOPLE

“Traveling to conferences and events around the world, and interacting and engaging with really smart, passionate people is a fantastic perk for entrepreneurs who are outgoing and love traveling. Every person that you interact with has an interesting life story, an experience, or a valuable insight — try to find out what it is.”

 

MOVING THE OFFICE WHENEVER I WANT

“When I worked out of a cubicle early in my career, I used to daydream about going down the street to work from a coffee shop, just to change my scenery and stimulate my creativity. Now, I can work anywhere with reliable Wi-Fi.”

- Allie Siarto | Partner, Director of Analytics, Loudpixel
 

A CHANCE TO SHAPE SOCIETY

“Owning my business gives me a concrete way to change the things I don’t agree with in society. Corporations have a responsibility to the people who help build them. I pay the entire health insurance premium for my employees, let those traveling spend an extra day in the cities they visit so they can see the world, and make sure that I manage the workload correctly so they all go home on time.”

 

COMPLETE CREATIVE RIGHTS!

“For me, a big value in owning my own business is all the work put into is mine :the designs, website, packaging — everything you see, I had my fingers on and thought of. Coming from and still being part of the creative design world, it’s sometimes a frustration when asked to “make the red more red” in a design. Owning is sort of a therapy session.”

- Jerry Piscitelli | Owner / Inventor, Portopong LLC
 

FREEDOM OF THOUGHT

“I cannot play an instrument, sing, or dance well. I use entrepreneurship as my art of self-expression. It allows me to be creative and challenge myself to create something of value that the rest of the world will love.”

 

IMMEASURABLE PERSONAL GROWTH

“A mentor of mine, Dan Cohen, recently described the personal growth changes in other young entrepreneurs he’s known as “growing in dog years.” It’s a true statement, and I can say my ventures have forced me to grow and adapt incredibly fast to a variety of challenges and situations.”

 

RED SOX GAMES!

“The biggest perk is that I can go to as many day sporting events without getting approval from a boss. I can also get up as late as I want and work until 4 a.m., with nobody to complain about my “weird” hours.”

- Patrick Curtis | Chief Monkey and Founder, WallStreetOasis.com
 

WHAT A RIDE!

“I always say that running a startup is like a roller coaster. The highs are really high, and the lows are really low, and it all comes down to you. I love that. Not everyone does, but I do.”

 

EXISTENTIAL JOY

“When you are running a startup, you learn a lot of skills quickly and feel challenged every day. At a regular job, it’s easy to get bored or just get by with little effort. Not so at a startup. The biggest perk I feel about owning my business is the feeling that I am living to my potential. When you live to your potential, you feel an existential joy in your life that is so satisfying.”

 

I’M BUILDING IT FOR ME

“Working for someone else means that everything you do goes to make their company better and more sustainable. You may be improving your odds of having a job in a few years, but you aren’t really building a future. But every hour I sink into my business goes toward creating something for me. That means I’m better able to take care of myself and my family and to live the life I want to.”

 

PASSPORT, PLEASE!

“I sometimes take for granted the fact that if I want to leave on a trip, I don’t have to ask anyone’s permission. I remember back to the times when I worked for someone else, and I would have to fill out forms and ask permission, and then await approval from upper management. I felt trapped, suffocated and limited. Now, I don’t have to ask for any permission. I just book it and go.”

- Steven Le Vine | CEO/President, grapevine pr
  

FREEDOM OF TIME

“While I work harder than most people I know in traditional jobs, I have way more flexibility and freedom than they do. If I want to take an afternoon off to go golf, I can. Or if I want to take my business with me and work from Thailand, I can do that too. Owning my own business has ensured I don’t have to sacrifice lifestyle for a paycheck.”

 

The Young Entrepreneur Council (YEC) is an invite-only organization comprised of the world’s most promising young entrepreneurs. In partnership with Citi, the YEC recently launched #StartupLab, a free virtual mentorship program that helps millions of entrepreneurs start and grow businesses via live video chats, an expert content library and email lessons.

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Infographic: 8 People Who Changed the World – Without Formal Education

People Who Changed the World – Without Formal Education

Famous scientists and inventors who dropped out of school changed the way we understand and perceive reality. They proved that imagination, hard work, and trusting your hunches are more important than formal education. Their inventions gave recreation and work to millions of people around the world. These famous scientists and tech people donated to charitable causes to eradicate poverty and diseases and to help disadvantaged people.

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Thomas Edison

Thomas Edison is a prolific inventor, businessman, and a famous dropout who invented the light bulb, motion picture camera, and stock ticker. His mother taught him to read and write after he was expelled from school because teachers thought he was too slow to learn. He was self-disciplined and industrious, worked hard, experimented, and spent a lot of time reading in the public library. While working on a train, selling newspapers, tobacco, and candy, a bottle of phosphorus in his train lab started a fire. He gave up trains, changed several jobs, and devoted himself to inventing.

The Wright Brothers

The Wright brothers invented the “flying machine” and flew the first airplane. Orville Wright was expelled from elementary school. While both Wilbur and Orville attended high school, they never graduated. They spent a lot of time watching birds in flight, designed gliders, and invented an airplane that gained enough airspeed for a successful flight. The fathers of flight did work on wing design, propellers, and in the field of aerodynamics. There is little hope for advance if we believe that reality is fixed and only accepted truths are true, Orville Wright once said.

Bill Gates

Bill Gates, a Harvard dropout, became a dropout billionaire who earns about $20 million a day. If he were to pay the U.S. national debt, it would take him about 10 years. The former chief executive of Microsoft is a computer programmer, entrepreneur, author, and philanthropist. While Edison put a lot of time and money into his inventions, Bill Gates is focused on malaria eradication and improving access to education.

Larry Ellison

Larry Ellison, who founded Oracle, is a billionaire college dropout and the world’s 9th richest person. Diplomas are for losers, he told Yale graduates in his commencement address. “Loserhood. Loser Cum Laude,” he said. Ellison is a magnate who owns planes, yachts, and islands. He also said he has given millions of dollars to charitable causes, including education and medical research.

Michael Dell

Michael Dell dropped out of college at the age of 19. The founder of Dell Inc. shown an interest in technology from an early age and contributed to the computer revolution later in his life. Dell Inc. has hundreds of thousands of employees around the world. Millions of companies, public libraries, foundations, and individuals use Dell computers for research and their daily tasks. The Michael and Susan Dell Foundation has donated to many charitable causes such as the Asian tsunami victims.

Steve Jobs

Steve Jobs, the chairman and co-founder of Apple Inc. was also a college dropout. He introduced the Macintosh and is recognized as one of the pioneers of the computer revolution. His many visionary creations, such as the iPad and iPhone, have changed the lives of millions of people. The man who set a standard for animated films believed that technology would help lives, not charity.

Paul Allen

Paul Allen, the founder of Xiant software and co-founder of Microsoft dropped out of the University of Washington. Known as the “idea man”, Allen became a billionaire in his early 30s. He invested in different companies while pursuing his wired world strategy. In his words, he “saw a connected future” and a wired world. Allen is the founder of the Paul G. Allen Family Foundation which has donated close to $30 million to non-for-profits in the U.S.

Mark Zuckerberg

Mark Zuckerberg is a Harvard dropout and the founder of Facebook. For him, it is more important to connect the world than to offer services for money. Openness and minimalism are important for him. Zuckerberg is a charity donor who gave more than $498 million to the Silicon Valley Community Foundation.

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Threading Africa Together Through Fashion and Style: Interview with @saidiChulala by @PoshyPorsche

You have to appreciate young ambitious upcoming Kenyans who are taking the culture a notch higher, by fulfilling their dreams, while demonstrating the rewards of following your passion.

CHULALA

Marvin Saidi: I am a guy who was born in Kenya and spent most of my formative years growing up in United Kingdom, Bristol. I have a very strong perfectionist professional side, tempered with a very soft fun-loving humorous nature, which stands me in good stead for the demands of my chosen profession.

I have a double major in BCom and Law don’t ask me why I chose fashion industry but I just had to.

1. What is the name of your clothing line and how did it start?

My shoe/clothing line is called CHULALA which is a nick name that I was used to be called because I knew how to dress and start my own fashion trends. The shoes are made from ankara fabric and they are designed for people who want to stand out.

I started in 2007 as a trial run back in the United Kingdom, more specifically in Bristol, designing stuff and giving my pals to rock for free.

This went on for quite some time till I got great reception in my products from my peers, before taking it on as a full time professional endeavor in 2011.

I’ve been growing big ever since. So far what I think has been my biggest challenge was acceptance, for you to try make people move the same direction you are is a pain in the ass.

In the beginning people used to think handmade African fabric shoes and clothing were so cliché’ and too crazy because they are so consumed by the Western style, but now all that has changed.

2. What has been your greatest achievement?

My greatest achievement I must say was making $2,500 in 2 hours when I started out.

3. What is the platform that you use to sell your products?

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For now everyone can find my designs at http://shop.closet49.com/Chulala_fashions, we are working on the new website to be launched in mid-2013, which will incorporate an online shop, and some new exciting sections.

You can keep up to date in the meantime with my blog or Twitter @saidiChulala

4. How does Kenya inspire you in regards to what you do?

Kenya does inspire me in some way. The culture and the people help remind me not to drag and be too comfortable because everyone in Kenya is thriving hard to excel and with this high competition I can’t really afford to sleep.

5. Appreciate three Kenyans in the industry who are doing big things

Hmm!! 3 Kenyans….. I must say my fellow model friend Emo, owner of Afros, Gilbert CEO for Fashion house Kenya and of course my main man Nick Ondu for Ankara Vintage

6. Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

In 10 years I see my brand CHULALA as one of the biggest brands in Africa as a whole and it will be a household name just like Gucci and Prada.

Interview by Pauline Wanjohi

Interview: Chulala, Threading Africa Together Through Fashion and Style @saidiChulala by @PoshyPorsche

5 Things to Do When You Have Second Thoughts About Your Degree

Major Regrets: What to Do When You Have Second Thoughts About Your Degree

Brittni Ping, an international studies and French language major, soon found out after graduating college that just because a college offers a particular degree, doesn’t mean there’s an application for it in the real world.

She’s not alone. There is a large group of adults out there, perfectly capable adults who have college degrees and career aspirations, who regret their college major. Data from a May 2012 report by the Heldrich Center for Workforce Development found that of graduates who would’ve done something differently in college, 37% would’ve been more careful about selecting a major or chosen a different major. And with some saying the college degree is becoming the new high school diploma, who has time, and who can afford, to have regrets about their degree choice?

Value of the Internship

Ping began an internship in Tel Aviv after finishing college and found that it was a great way for her to get her feet wet in her field.

“The internship was actually a part of the Glazer Institute, which I heard of through my school. It was my first job within the realm of the arts, which I am very passionate about,” she said. “The internship gave me a good idea of what goes on behind the scenes and from a business prospective, and since my major was international studies, I really benefitted from learning how to mesh into a new work culture.”

Ping said unhappy or disenchanted graduates should seek out internships, especially abroad. Like Ping, students may learn of these opportunities through their respective schools. After interning, Ping taught English abroad in France for a year, in order to bolster her French degree.

“Even though the work may be short-term, you’ll never be bored. You learn a lot of things abroad at a much quicker pace, simply because the environment is so different from what you’re used to,” she said. “I believe experiences like this have the ability to set you apart also from job applicants who have never left their own state, for example.”

Abby Kohut, career expert and blogger for AbsolutelyAbby, said her internships were extremely beneficial.

“They helped me determine the kind of work environment I preferred, the kinds of job responsibilities I enjoyed, and the type of manager I worked with best. When you regret your major, it’s important to take the time that you need to find a job that you won’t regret, and internships offer a perfect opportunity to do just that,” Kohut said. “Plus, an internship gives both parties a ‘try and buy’ so that each can decide whether the match is appropriate.”

Kohut suggested graduates looking for internships check out sites such as InternsOver40 and Intern Match.

“You can also find internships on large job boards such as Monster and Careerbuilder. The best way to find a job shadowing opportunity is to use LinkedIn to find individuals in the profession you are interested in and ask them for a shadowing opportunity. Typically, college career centers can point you towards these kinds of opportunities as well,” she said.

Work Through It, Literally

Sometimes when graduates are stuck with a degree they deem as worthless, the only thing to do is get to work.

“In this current job market, you need every advantage you can get on your resume and ‘psychology undergrad’ does not open many doors,” said Anna Gamel, who majored in psychology and decided to forego grad school and get a job to pay back some of her undergraduate debt. “It’ll take me many years of good work experience to make up for that degree.”

She began by taking a job completely unrelated to her field.

“I took a random job assisting a contracted public relations team at a tech company. The initial pay was $13/hour and was found by a friend’s cousin who worked for a recruiting company,” Gamel said. “Within the first three months, they fired the contracted team, asked me to take over all PR for the company, and brought me on as a salaried employee with a substantial raise.”

Gamel said she was able to teach herself PR through trial and error and with the help of Google.

“I was able to train myself to be effective in PR because I pushed myself past any comfort levels I ever had. I worked long hours and would bring my laptop home to read PR blogs,” she said. “I literally had to Google what a press release was before writing my first one. I had to build lists of influential media people and executives by researching them from the ground-up. I pored over top technology lists and learned what Google Alerts were so I could keep myself up to date on emerging competition.”

Loren Guerriero said his liberal arts degree in general psychology didn’t leave him with much but temporary work and volunteering opportunities.

His first job out of school was wilderness therapy, or leading a group of troubled teenagers through hikes in the woods — he stopped because it got cold — and after that began counseling homeless youth in downtown Portland. Guerriero said he realized the life of a social worker was “chronically underpaid, underappreciated, and morally exhausting.”

So he packed up his belongings and bought a one-way ticket to Mexico.

“I had run out of ideas and options in the United States, so I decided to do something completely different, and I was interested in Mexico because of its rapid and unequal economic development,” Guerriero said. “Mexico is so close by, and so different, yet intimately connected to us. But to be perfectly honest, it was a wild card without a clear outcome.”

Guerriero began volunteering with local Non-Governmental Organizations (NGOs) in Mexico until he finally got his big break: an environmental justice NGO needed someone to translate its website from Spanish into English.

“Although I felt like I was adept at using computers, it was a stretch to work on a website. In addition, I was only an intermediate Spanish speaker,” he said. “Regardless, I decided to take the job, even though I wasn’t sure how I would succeed. The steep learning curve — HTML and Spanish — forced me into many hours of trial and error, scouring the internet for tutorials and community discussions. I was surprised to find that I could pull it off with patience and self-paced study.”

Because of the spontaneous trip to Mexico, Guerriero was able to make the most out of his degree.

“Ever since then, HTML has been a critical skill that has helped me get every job, each one forcing me to up my web ante. Without realizing it, the impulsive trip to Mexico sparked a new skill set.”

Network Your Way to a Career

Possibly one of the best weapons a disgruntled graduate can use when networking are the various forms of social media.

“Networking is helpful for anyone entering a new field,” Kohut said. “Use LinkedIn to locate individuals who are in the profession or industry that you are interested in, then ask for an informational interview where you can ask questions about why they entered the field, what they like or dislike, and what education is needed.”

Gamel said all she had to go on when she took over her company’s PR efforts was a vague plan on a PowerPoint file. Her success relied on her ability to self-teach and network and she admittedly has networked herself into each position she’s had since college.

“I befriended some of the feistiest tech bloggers in the tech sphere and after two years was friendly enough to visit them in their homes,” she said. I landed my bosses presentation slots at Proctor and Gamble, Harvard, MIT and Stanford University. We did conferences and expos in various states. I put on a press release party at the Ritz in Tokyo, Japan.”

Gamel began her job not knowing what Twitter was and a year later was on a list in Portland as one of the top people to ‘follow.’

“I moved to a new city and had my sights set on a certain agency. I applied twice without luck, so I started networking via Twitter and found out the CEO would be attending a certain Tweet-Up,” she said. “I went to the Tweet-Up and met as many people as I could until one person finally offered to introduce me to her. We chatted and I told her I would love to grab coffee sometime. Soon after, I was employed.”

The key to networking, Gamel said, is stepping outside of one’s comfort zone.

“I actually hate networking and going to a networking event alone is like pure torture to me. But, you have to do it,” she said. “If you have a hobby that makes you employable, for example you’re good at writing, volunteer at a writing center and meet people who could help you find a job. Think of a field where you believe you could make your skills work for you — find people in that field and ask them out to coffee.”

The MOOC Advantage

Massive Open Online Courses (MOOCs) became extremely popular in 2012, as many saw them as a game changer in education technology.

 

With the opportunity to take classes for free, some of them for credit, graduates dissatisfied with their degrees can use MOOCs to enhance their resumes and possibly land them their dream job.

“Additional education whether free or credit worthy is valuable, especially in this job market,” Kohut said. “If what you learned during the MOOC is relevant to your career goal, you can list it on your resume in the education section. You can also mention the class in your cover letter and in your interview, especially if the class helped you with your career choice.”

Gamel said she considered going back to school for more education, but feels the additional debt would be hard to deal with.

“Before enrolling in MOOCs, I would try to talk to people in the industry I wanted to get into and research what MOOCs mean to my prospective employer,” she said. “If I was already employed and thought it would help me move up, I would bring it up with my employer. I would try and get various employers or HR departments to chat with me about their thoughts on them first. I’ve been surprised at how receptive employers are about chatting with you regarding qualifications and what they look for in candidates.”

The Importance of Being Realistic

Ping said students can no longer rely on good grades to come out with a well-paid, secure career.

“The business world just isn’t running like that anymore. Students do need to get As in school and have suitable experience through internships, but after that it’s about creativity and demonstrating how you stand out,” she said.

Guerriero has similar opinions.

“By telling students that they can do anything, and trumpeting the inherent value of higher education, we sometimes miss the opportunity to teach the necessity of being technical and entrepreneurial in a the modern job market,” he said. “The job hunt can be frustrating because a student is used to the pattern of applying for a program, completing the requirements, and receiving a certification. This thinking means that some individuals seek credentials perpetually, even without checking to see if that’s completely necessary.”

Guerriero suggested recent graduates consider these questions before rushing to enroll in a program to acquire additional certification: What is the job I really want and what is required from this employer? Is it another degree or something else?

“This might be more education, or it might be volunteer work, an apprenticeship, or portfolio development,” he said. “And don’t only respond to postings. Many opportunities are filled before they even make it to the public listings.”

Kohut said many individuals make poor choices when it comes to their major because they are unaware of how their interests match potential careers.

It’s normal for students to have concerns about their job prospects after graduation, especially in this job market and especially if the choice of major doesn’t seem too promising. But, there are ways for graduates to combat these concerns, and ultimately find their way to successful and fulfilling careers.

Source: http://www.onlinedegreeprograms.com/blog/2013/major-regrets-what-to-do-when-you-have-second-thoughts-about-your-degree/

CapitalFM TV|The Strength of a Woman: Waithera Kabiru’s Journey From Breast Cancer

Thirty seven-year old Waithera says her smile is not just physical but from the deepest part of her heart/CFM

NAIROBI, Kenya, Apr 24 – As Hollywood star Michael Douglas put it, “cancer didn’t bring me to my knees, it brought me to my feet.”This is the energy that I notice as Waithera Kabiru heartily unleashes a dazzling smile despite the drip hanging from above her small bed to her right breast.

The smile does not resemble that of a patient, or for that matter of someone who has been diagnosed with breast cancer.

Waithera is full of life as she prepares herself to undergo a chemotherapy session. She has an iPad and a bible ready to take her through the long hours in a small cancer ward.

Thirty seven-year old Waithera says her smile is not just physical but from the deepest part of her heart.

According to her, despite being diagnosed with cancer, God has not made any mistake. “I have no regrets at all. I got this cancer for a reason. God has a purpose for me, to be able to help others, create awareness and help in raising funds for others.”

In fact, cancer has given her a second chance and the secret of this second chance is staying positive.

“On 12/12/12, one day after my 37th birthday, I underwent my first course of treatment – breast cancer surgery to remove the tumours found in my right breast and removal of my lymph nodes. I will never forget that date in my life. It is the day that marked the beginning of my Second Chance in Life,” Waithera explains.

Many people after being diagnosed with chronic illnesses allow the disease to take toll on their lives shattering the glimmer of hope that has kept many alive and in fact cancer free.

Despite the physical and emotional evils that the cancer has come with, Waithera is among the few of the likes of Robin Roberts who said, “It’s about focusing on the fight and not the fright.”

“Today I stand here, five months into my treatment and my life has never felt better or wholesome! Despite going through chemotherapy treatment since January, I have never felt this wholesome in my life! Yes, I have a mile long list of side effects, from hair loss, insomnia, constipation, lack of appetite, back pain, chronic fatigue, and the list goes on, but I can live with them. Every day I wake up and I value the small things in life and I am thankful for them. That’s cancer for you, it keeps you in perspective!” Waithera describes.

This is the attitude that has given the mother of two sons the energy, courage and determination of patiently going through chemotherapy sometimes for three to four hours every two weeks.

Waithera who describes herself as a digital diva, soccer mum and soon to be cancer survivor learnt about her condition in November last year.

She felt a lump on her breast by chance.

“I was not checking for a lump, I just happened to find a lump after taking a shower. I told my sister about it who told me to see an oncologist. I did not even know who an oncologist is. But I went to see the oncologist after that.”

Waithera who is former Head of Digital Media at Capital FM was quite aware of the numerous frequent campaigns reminding Kenyans to do self breast examination regularly.

But like most Kenyans, she did not take the reminders seriously. She knew of her condition when the cancer was at stage three.

According to the Breast Cancer Organisation, cancer tumours are described from stage I to IV with IV being the most advanced cancer.

Waithera is now advising Kenyans to take cancer awareness messages seriously because if cancer is discovered at early stages, it can be better managed than a discovery at late stages.

“I was in media…I got that information; I was aware of that, I did not do it consistently. Don’t be too busy to do it. I was fortunate I caught mine at stage 3. If I was doing it regularly I would have caught it very early. Do a self breast examination in the shower, do it once per month. Anyone can get cancer. Lifestyles have changed; not only those with a family history of cancer can get it,” she warns.

In her second chance, Waithera wants to talk to people and advocate for regular cancer screening and early detection.

Talking from experience, treatment of cancer is very expensive. In total, Waithera requires between Sh5 to Sh6 million for her treatment.

“My treatment involves surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. The surgery costs from Sh500,000. The chemotherapy (I am doing eight cycles) every session costs between Sh30,000 to 70,000 per session. I am also on a drug that costs about Sh500,000. The radiation costs between Sh200,000 to 500,000.

Waithera is also on additional treatment of a drug that costs Sh279,000 for every dose and she requires 12 of them. “Cancer is very expensive to manage but I have put my trust in God that he will provide.”

Even as she struggles not to dose off after getting additional drip mixed with a sleeping pill, Waithera’s wish and prayer is that one day Kenyans will access affordable and quality cancer detection, treatment and management services.

On April 1st, during a campaign dubbed ‘Motor Hunt’ Sh420,000 was raised to aid Waithera to meet her medical costs.

A second funds drive, called ‘Family Affair Wellness and Music Festival’ will be held on May 1st, 2013 at the Carnivore grounds in Nairobi from 10am.

At a charge of Sh500 for adults and Sh200 for children above 5 years, guests will be entertained by the likes of Eric Wainaina, Daddy Owen, DJ Pinye and Capital FM’s DJ Adrian.

Cancer survivors will also be present to share their life experiences.

Free cancer screening services will also be made available.

“Hi well-wishers and thanks for your support. You can mPESA donations to 0722 583 790 (Mary Kabiru), or make cheque to the Waithera Kabiru Medical Fund, Family Bank Account No 48000005353. Thank-you very much,” – Waithera Kabiru

Courtesy of http://www.capitalfm.co.ke

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Wondering How To Be Successful? Here Are The 6 Secrets

All of us want to be successful in life, business, careers, relations e.t.c. However, most people believe that success is difficult. Such people that actually want and need success to be hard have a built-in excuse when things don’t go their way! They blame nature, your parents, your boss, friend etc instead of taking a 100% of their lives.

Success is all about attitude, and believe in yourself.  Napoleon once said that “whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” You must believe that what you want is possible.
For those of you who are serious about having more, doing more, giving more and being more, success is achievable with some understanding of what to do, some discipline around planning and execution of those plans and belief that you can achieve your desires.

Jack Canfield in his book “The Principles of Success” says that success takes time, effort, perseverance and patience. Therefore, put in mind that success is a process – nothing more, nothing less. There is really no magic to it and it’s not reserved only for a select few people. As such, success really has nothing to do with luck, coincidence or fate. It really comes down to understanding the steps in the process and then executing on those steps.

Here are some key steps that can get you from where you are to where you want to be.

1.Decide what you want
“The indispensable first step to getting things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.” Bein stein. We all know that nothing moves until someone makes a decision. The first action is always in making the decision to proceed. This is a fundamental step, which most people overlook. So, make the decision to move forward. Commit your decision to paper, just to bring it into focus. Then, go for it!

2. Clarity
Have clarity of purpose which entails understanding what you want, why you want it and what it will do for you.  Majority of people have no clue about what they truly want. They have no clarity. When asked the question, responses will be superficial at best, and at worst, will be what someone else wants for them.

Ask yourself lots of questions: What do I really want? What does success look like to me? Why do I want a particular thing? How will this achievement change my life? How can I use this success to make a difference for others? Once you have a clear understanding of what you want, you can engage in goal setting – specifically setting SMART goals.

3. Focus
Focus is having the unwavering attention to complete what you set out to do. There are a million distractions in every facet of our lives. Telephones and e-mail, clients and managers, spouses and kids, TV, newspapers and radio – the distractions are everywhere and endless. Everyone wants a piece of us and the result can be totally overwhelming.

So, to stay on course with all these distractions, you need willpower, though it’s very difficult to stay on track simply through willpower. Therefore, you need to develop and follow a plan on the steps required to get you to the goals on paper. Review it regularly and ensure that every step takes you closer to your Vision and Goals. If the plan doesn’t support the vision then change it!

4.Commitment
Commitment is something that comes from understanding that everything has its price and then having the willingness to pay that price. This is important because nobody wants to put significant effort into something, only to find out after the fact that the price was too high.

The price is something not necessarily defined as financial. It could be time, effort, sacrifice, money or perhaps, something else. The point is that we must be fully aware of the price and be willing to pay it, if we want to have success.

5.Belief
This is the single biggest obstacle that all of us must overcome in order to be successful. We all carry a lot of baggage, thanks to our upbringing. The majority of people carry with them, an entire series of self-limiting beliefs that will absolutely stop, and hold them back from, success. Things like “I’m not good enough”, “I’m not smart enough”, “I’m not lucky enough”, and the worst, “I’m not worthy” are but a few of the self-limiting beliefs I have encountered. We carry them with us like rocks in a knapsack, and then use them to sabotage our success. So, how twisted is that?!?!

The old expression is absolutely true – whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right! You need to shed off these non-supportive beliefs and replacing them with beliefs that will help them to accomplish their desires.

6.Taking Action

“Nothing changes until something moves” – this is the battle cry of author and journalist Robert Ringer. Not all of the decision-making, clarity, planning, focus and belief in the world, will get you to where you want to be, without taking action!

Action – putting your plans into play – that is what will get you to the destination. Don’t get caught in the paralysis of analysis, or in the conundrum of Ready, Aim, Aim, Aim, Aim…

Get the oars in the water and start rowing. Execution is the single biggest factor in achievement, so the faster and better your execution, the quicker you will get to the goals!

By Dorcas Karuana

Interview: KTN’s @AnneKiguta Talks About Life & Career Success

She is sassy, beautiful and a jewel that KTN would find hard to replace if she ever decided to look the other way (get poached)

She spoke to Elleafrique Magazine and below is an excerpt of that interview.

Who is Anne Kiguta?

I am 28 years old and the last of four girls. I grew up in an average Kenyan family. We weren’t wealthy and my parents made it abundantly clear that I had to work for everything I wanted in life.
So I learnt the values of work, determination and tenacity quite early in life.

My upbringing was difficult because I was raised in a home where my father physically assaulted my mother and on occasion my sisters and myself. It was a very painful experience by many beautiful things have come out of that including the work I do with Kenyan families. Am part of various mentor-ship programmes in Kenya for women and girls with save the children as a child nutrition advocate. I am also a mother to the coolest kid I know, Sasha.

How did you get into television?
I’ve always loved language. English literature was my favourite in school. I have always had what I think is an above average sense of curiosity. Asking questions was in built. After my A levels I took a gap year to figure out what I wanted. It just so happens that my local church was setting up a radio station and was looking for presenters.

I got the job and the rest is history. I worked at Hope FM then News market leader at Capital FM for a total of seven years before venturing into TV. Oddly enough, I did my screen test while I was pregnant a very prominent baby bump. they told me to return after I had the baby and I did!

How is the competition with the male counterparts? Are you all treated as equals or not?
Media is a testosterone driven business. No we are not treated like equals. but its up to you to make your presence felt and take your position. I have faced my fair of chauvinism. Even now, with some male peers, they still from time to time talk down to women.

Having said that I have also had the fortune to work work with great men in this business who didn’t shoo me away from their offices with my million questions as a young journalist. The challenges have become a powerful motivator for me. I strive to be doubly good at what I do. Having said that, who wants to be treated as equals? I’m a woman, specially designed by my creator to bring things to life. I was made for greatness. Treat me special because I am!

Is it true that you had to literally fight with another female anchor for the top position?

Haha. No. But isn’t that the story that some bloggers would love to tell! It is as if women can’t get ahead without cat-fights or sleeping around. Any way, I do not shy away from challenges or opportunity. I do my homework and put my best foot forward always!  I focus on Anne. I’m her number one cheerleader and her fiercest critic. I don’t look over my shoulder to see who is doing what. I have my mission and my purpose and I’m determined to accomplish it. I have been blessed to achieve many firsts throughout my career. First to go straight to prime time, being the youngest to hold several editorial positions etc. These things did not come on a silver platter. They have come through a lot of prayer and hard work. I’m proud of my accomplishments and thankful for the opportunity to do what I do.

A few months ago Kenya elected a new President. How was the whole experience of reporting the news?

It was intense and thrilling. I was on air for 10 or 11 hours straight and when it was time to rest, I barely could because I did not want to miss an update. That coupled with the amount of reading I had to do to be ready made it all challenging and great fun. I was proud to be Kenyan I salute the millions who lined up for hours to cast their vote. They redeemed our faith in the democratic process. Kenyans have kept the peace. I am confident they will continue to do so.
 
What do you do when you are not working?
I go about with my mission with women and children across the country. I find it deeply rewarding and it is my way of building Kenya. I love to hang with my daughter. We do a lot of dancing and eating! I’ve also recently joined the gym and found it very rewarding! Then of course there is Friday night with my girls.

We could laugh for days on end sipping on red wine.

Do you have a family of your own/are you planning to have any/are you dating?
As mentioned, I have a gorgeous three year old. She is my joy and means the wide world to me. I am seeing someone. I’m taking it a day at a time and enjoying the journey. Living, loving, learning.

Men find you very sexy. How does that make you feel?
Haha. Very sexy? Haha. Well it is nice to get a compliment. How does it make me feel? To be honest I don’t think about it until someone does ask. It feels nice and kind of awkward really. I prefer to get compliments based on the work I do rather than how I look.

 Give us five names of African women who inspire you today?
1. Njoki Ndugu, Supreme Court Judge – Kenya
2. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Former World Bank Managing Director and Nigeria Finance Minister
3. H.E Joyce Banda, President of Malawi
4. Alek Wek, Supermodel
5. Margaret Kiguta, my mum.

Why Most Kenyans Are Always Broke

Let me start off by saying that if you are not on the “most” list, you deserve a trophy for making the rest of us look bad. We only have one question for you, ‘How on earth do you manage to stay off the ‘broke fellas’ lane and stay on the avenue of ‘smugly have my finances under control avenue’?

It’s almost the end month and most of us , myself included can barely wait for that cheque to clear off to finally have some money on us. Spend it within a week, two weeks if you are lucky and the whole
cycle just keeps repeating itself.

Wondering why you are always broke? No, you are not cursed, I will tell you why…

1.The Economy Sucks!
We are humans and we love to lay blame on things we have no control over. So let’s blame our misery on the economy. It is not an empty blame though. Prices of every commodity go up, the land lord demands a little more after every two months or so, the matatu conductor decides to surprise us every now and then and woe unto you if you come from Rongai and it starts to rain or it seem like it’s going to rain. See, the economy doesn’t favour our shallow pockets.

 2.We live beyond our means
Everyone loves a good life even if they can’t afford it. We live in neighbourhoods that we know very well will leave a dent on our bank accounts every month, we shop at places we know very well are not designed for people like us…the good life as they call it ends up leaving us in trouble.

3.We Try to keep up with everybody else.
A friend buys something and for the love of all things decent we want to show them that, “Dude, I can rock that too” But in the real sense, can you? Check your pockets, are they deep enough to keep up?

4.We are not paid well enough
Of course we are not paid well enough… You and everybody else. A six figure salary would be the end of your troubles but since that is not likely to happen any time soon, welcome to the ‘broke fellas lane’

They may not be the only reasons why most Kenyans are always broke and always on the lookout for the pay day.  The nyamachoma joints, that clubbing we enjoy every Friday, those outings and road trips we love so much, the unplanned emergencies (new clothes) are going to be the death of us, literally. Lack of money, creates stress and stress could kill you. I read that somewhere, check it out sometimes.

The good news is that we can change that…here is how.

•    Create a budget- and Stick to it.
•    Pay attention to your finances.
•    Stop wasting money
•    Spend less than earn
•    Earn more.

How, can you earn more you ask? Look for ways of making more income so you can have more money. You don’t have to have a weekend off each week. You can find other jobs that will give you more hours so you can get ahead on your bills. This might seem difficult, but the extra cash will go a long way.

Other than getting another job, you can also start a small business that costs little in terms of time and money.

By Tabitha Makumi

I Got Cancer For a Reason; God Has a Purpose by @JudieJeez

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 Thirty seven-year old Waithera says her smile is not just physical but from the deepest part of her heart/CFM

Thirty seven-year old Waithera says her smile is not just physical but from the deepest part of her heart/CFM

NAIROBI, Kenya, Apr 24 – As Hollywood star Michael Douglas put it, “cancer didn’t bring me to my knees, it brought me to my feet.”This is the energy that I notice as Waithera Kabiru heartily unleashes a dazzling smile despite the drip hanging from above her small bed to her right breast.

The smile does not resemble that of a patient, or for that matter of someone who has been diagnosed with breast cancer.

Waithera is full of life as she prepares herself to undergo a chemotherapy session. She has an iPad and a bible ready to take her through the long hours in a small cancer ward.

Thirty seven-year old Waithera says her smile is not just physical but from the deepest part of her heart.

According to her, despite being diagnosed with cancer, God has not made any mistake. “I have no regrets at all. I got this cancer for a reason. God has a purpose for me, to be able to help others, create awareness and help in raising funds for others.”

In fact, cancer has given her a second chance and the secret of this second chance is staying positive.

“On 12/12/12, one day after my 37th birthday, I underwent my first course of treatment – breast cancer surgery to remove the tumours found in my right breast and removal of my lymph nodes. I will never forget that date in my life. It is the day that marked the beginning of my Second Chance in Life,” Waithera explains.

Many people after being diagnosed with chronic illnesses allow the disease to take toll on their lives shattering the glimmer of hope that has kept many alive and in fact cancer free.

Despite the physical and emotional evils that the cancer has come with, Waithera is among the few of the likes of Robin Roberts who said, “It’s about focusing on the fight and not the fright.”

“Today I stand here, five months into my treatment and my life has never felt better or wholesome! Despite going through chemotherapy treatment since January, I have never felt this wholesome in my life! Yes, I have a mile long list of side effects, from hair loss, insomnia, constipation, lack of appetite, back pain, chronic fatigue, and the list goes on, but I can live with them. Every day I wake up and I value the small things in life and I am thankful for them. That’s cancer for you, it keeps you in perspective!” Waithera describes.

This is the attitude that has given the mother of two sons the energy, courage and determination of patiently going through chemotherapy sometimes for three to four hours every two weeks.

Waithera who describes herself as a digital diva, soccer mum and soon to be cancer survivor learnt about her condition in November last year.

She felt a lump on her breast by chance.

“I was not checking for a lump, I just happened to find a lump after taking a shower. I told my sister about it who told me to see an oncologist. I did not even know who an oncologist is. But I went to see the oncologist after that.”

Waithera who is former Head of Digital Media at Capital FM was quite aware of the numerous frequent campaigns reminding Kenyans to do self breast examination regularly.

But like most Kenyans, she did not take the reminders seriously. She knew of her condition when the cancer was at stage three.

According to the Breast Cancer Organisation, cancer tumours are described from stage I to IV with IV being the most advanced cancer.

Waithera is now advising Kenyans to take cancer awareness messages seriously because if cancer is discovered at early stages, it can be better managed than a discovery at late stages.

“I was in media…I got that information; I was aware of that, I did not do it consistently. Don’t be too busy to do it. I was fortunate I caught mine at stage 3. If I was doing it regularly I would have caught it very early. Do a self breast examination in the shower, do it once per month. Anyone can get cancer. Lifestyles have changed; not only those with a family history of cancer can get it,” she warns.

In her second chance, Waithera wants to talk to people and advocate for regular cancer screening and early detection.

Talking from experience, treatment of cancer is very expensive. In total, Waithera requires between Sh5 to Sh6 million for her treatment.

“My treatment involves surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. The surgery costs from Sh500,000. The chemotherapy (I am doing eight cycles) every session costs between Sh30,000 to 70,000 per session. I am also on a drug that costs about Sh500,000. The radiation costs between Sh200,000 to 500,000.

Waithera is also on additional treatment of a drug that costs Sh279,000 for every dose and she requires 12 of them. “Cancer is very expensive to manage but I have put my trust in God that he will provide.”

Even as she struggles not to dose off after getting additional drip mixed with a sleeping pill, Waithera’s wish and prayer is that one day Kenyans will access affordable and quality cancer detection, treatment and management services.

On April 1st, during a campaign dubbed ‘Motor Hunt’ Sh420,000 was raised to aid Waithera to meet her medical costs.

A second funds drive, called ‘Family Affair Wellness and Music Festival’ will be held on May 1st, 2013 at the Carnivore grounds in Nairobi from 10am.

At a charge of Sh500 for adults and Sh200 for children above 5 years, guests will be entertained by the likes of Eric Wainaina, Daddy Owen, DJ Pinye and Capital FM’s DJ Adrian.

Cancer survivors will also be present to share their life experiences.

Free cancer screening services will also be made available.

“Hi well-wishers and thanks for your support. You can mPESA donations to 0722 583 790 (Mary Kabiru), or make cheque to the Waithera Kabiru Medical Fund, Family Bank Account No 48000005353. Thank-you very much,” – Waithera Kabiru

CapitalTV|@Maqbuli and @SusanLuckyWong jumping off a 96 Metre cliff in Zambia

Poem: Thoughts

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Thoughts,
Rapidly rising, please tell me it’s no longer suprising,
That a 25 year old man is still searching for proper guidance
That my 3rd hospital visit ended with me apologizing,
To people I never knew were internalizing,
Thoughts
I’m just visualizing God’s image in these words I’m rhyming
The stars are now aligning,
Licking my lips like the moon was appetizing,
Howling and barking, while demonizing
Every person who lived thanks to Jesus dying
Thoughts
Grew up idolizing the same niqqa’s I’m now minimizing
Stopped compromising, with people addicted to victimizing
Thoughts
I can’t do it alone, no man is an island,
Once thought my feelings were private,
till I opened my eyelids, only to see His perfect timing
I epitomize, and realize that my ego is the only thing dying,
Thoughts
Every moment is a chance for resurrection, thanks to Kenya’s climate
My lows and highs begin equalizing
As the temperature continues rising,
Thoughts
I’m in it to win it, my father taught me that,
My mom was a teacher, still is, but she’s much more than that
My sister is an angel, believe me she’s trapped,
on earth with her wings, time to bring her back,
Thoughts
Home to her maker, and no, I don’t think I’m the creator,
But for now, let’s think about the past later,
I’m not your father, my words are Darth Vader
Like the poem started, thoughts rise like elevators
Thoughts
Went to school to earn papers, now I”m broke working for paper
Haters, Don’t exist when indifference numbs them, along with prayer
I’m not religious, but His spirit is my saviour
no time for reflection, my words jump right off the paper,
Thoughts
I sit and meditate, God created us in the image of our maker
Used to hate Karma until one day I forgave her,
Now I’m busy watching Kobe dominate in his 17th year as a Laker
Reporting the business news, mom proud I made use of my major
Thoughts
These are just my thoughts. Reflect. Mirror on the wall, who’s the most humble of them all?
Thoughts.

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Music Video: 2Chainz ft. Lil Wayne – YUCK

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The 5 Types of Guys You Should Never (Ever) Marry

He may talk the talk, but if he doesn’t walk the walk — there certainly won’t be a wedding aisle in your futures together

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In general, women tend to rely on words, whereas men rely on actions. So, when men speak sweetly to women, women believe them, even if they don’t behave accordingly. Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behavior to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says.

This discrepancy between words and behavior is especially problematic in marriage-bound relationships. So, watch out if your man is one of these five types:

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The “help me until I’m ready” guy. The “need help” type is totally entrenched in his own insecurities. He only talks about his own problems — never yours — but he wants a lady by his side because it makes him feel worthy. So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him “until he’s ready.” But, guess what: He’ll never be ready, and so, he is not husband material.

The “dare to discuss marriage” guy. Since he knows women believe in words not actions, he dares talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing it’s what you want to hear. But that’s all he’ll do; no further action is ever taken. There is never a time frame for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversation suddenly goes in different directions.

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The “be my guest and discuss marriage” guy. This guy lets you do all the talking about marriage you like. He knows you dream about it; he listens to you discuss it in great detail — where your home will be, what kind of furniture you’ll buy, what kind of wedding you want. And when you ask him about dreams, he says, “Whatever you want, honey.” Always look at his actions. If there aren’t any, if he’s all talk, he’s not husband material.

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The “bear with me” guy. He finds nice, logical excuses that seem acceptable. You know, he can’t take action now because he’s busy with his career, or his weight loss, or his parents’ needs. You name it, and the statement is “Bear with me.”

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The “let’s have fun first” guy. He sticks around for the thrill of the game. When the fun is out, he’s onto a new adventure and a new thrill. He’s not here for future plans or kids or family or even settling down and confiding in one woman. He wants and talks about fun and about sex. Whenever you talk marriage, the face changes, the fun ends, and the statement he repeats is, “You are spoiling the moment,” hoping you’ll eventually drop the subject. If you don’t, soon he’ll be out and about for another thrill.

By eHarmony

Top 5 Upcoming Tech Women In Kenya to Watch

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1. Catherine Mahugu – Co-Founder of Sasa Africa now  Shop Soko - http://shopsoko.com/

Catherine Mahugu is an alumni of the School of Computing and Informatics in the University of Nairobi. She has been involved in various ICT for Development projects including Stanford University’s Nokia Africa Research Center Design Project that involved building mobile applications targeting informal communities.With training acquired from Stanford’s Design school she has facilitated the design thinking course in various ICT4Development workshops in Kenya. Kate joined the SasaAfrica team to help develop a culturally appropriate technological solution, and acts as Sasa’s Mobile Development Lead and Technology Strategist.

2. Manka Angwafo is the founder and Director of Hadithi - www.hadithi.org

Manka is a young entrepreneur, passionate about education and knowledge sharing. She began her career in the financial services industry as a merger and acquisition’s analyst, where she became seasoned in company valuations and market analysis. For the last three years, she served as core staff at the Chief Economist for Africa’s office at the World Bank’s Headquarters in Washington, DC. In this capacity, she co-authored several volumes of Africa’s Pulse—a regional flagship report analyzing recent economic trends across Sub Saharan Africa.Ms. Angwafo also co-edited Yes Africa Can: Success Stories from a Dynamic Continent. She is an American national of Cameroonian and Jamaican origin and is fluent in both French and English.

3.Nivi Mukherjee is the founder and CEO of eLimu - http://e-limu.org/

As a social entrepreneur, technophile and community volunteer, she is passionate about empowering youth and engaging in community initiatives that foster development and fun. She was the Education Quality Assurance Manager at the Institute of Software Technologies, an IT training company based in Nairobi.

She also runs Maisha ni Matamu, a “funucational” social project that aims to bring a day full of joy every month to children who are underprivileged and/or orphaned. eLimu is an education technology startup that utilizes tablets to make learning more interactive, fun and effective for Kenyan primary school students.

4. Charlene Migwe – Co-Founder of Syncacor  - http://synacor.co.ke/

Charlene is the Marketing Director of Synacor Consortium, a Kenyan company  that specializes in designing and developing mobile websites, web applications and consultancy. They have created MajiRipoti, a solution is designed to act as a link between the general public and Water Service Providers. The solution will allow the Kenyan public to report broken water pipes, sewer pipes and illegal manipulation of the water supply, therefore assisting in the conservation of water and preventing pollution through leaking sewerage.

5.  Shikoh Gitau – Founder of Ummeli  - http://ummeli.com/

Shikoh Gitau is a Computer Scientist and holds a PhD and and an MSc in Computer Science from the University of Cape Town, South Africa. She is the founder of Ummeli.com and a User Experience Researcher with Google primarily focusing on Emerging Market Users. In this role, Shikoh uses insights drawn from continuous and constant interaction with users to inform design and product development of Google products for this market and users. Passionate about technology especially mobile phones and their possible catalyst effect in empowerment and development, Shikoh provides mentorship and support to various start-ups and research efforts in Africa both in the academia and industry that strive to make technology relevant, usable and useful in the everyday life of African users.

By Jessica Colaco

Top 10 Healthy Benefits To Regular Meditation

Top 10 Healthy Benefits To Regular Meditation

Meditation is far more than just a religious practice; it is actually incredibly good for your mental, physical and emotional health. It is great for relieving stress, and has no negative side effects. Below are ten things meditation does to improve your health.

10. Both Mood And Stress Levels Are Greatly Improved

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recent study found that those who meditate, even as little as eleven hours a month, can see both increased cognitive performance, and greatly increased mood. Researchers studied 68 university students over the course of a month, and found that they had an increase in white matter around the anterior cingulate cortex. This is part of your body’s self-regulation system, and is used to control mood, among other things. Those who took part in the study had lower levels of anxiety, anger, fatigue, and depression, than those in the control group. If you are ever in a situation where life is getting you down; don’t get mad, get to meditating.

9. It Can Help Facilitate Psoriasis Treatments

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Psoriasis is an immune disorder that causes your body to think that healthy skin cells are diseased, and sends out a signal to create new ones, which leads to far too many new skin cells. This causes scaly, itchy patches on people’s skin, and is believed to lead to an increased risk of stroke. Scientists conducted a study with groups of people about to undergo phototherapy for their psoriasis. One group was given regular guided mindfulness meditation sessions along with the phototherapy, and the control group simply had the phototherapy and nothing else.

After going over the results, the scientists concluded that those who had gone through the guided mindfulness meditation sessions had decreased stress, as well as quicker resolution of their psoriatic lesions. Basically, those who had meditated healed both faster and better.

8. It Can Reduce Your Risk Of Schizophrenia And Other Psychotic Disorders

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Scientists at Yale learned that experienced mediators tend to turn off the part of the brain with “me” thoughts, as well as mind-wandering. The researchers believe that these states, in their pathological form, are associated with schizophrenia, autism and anxiety disorders. Meditation allows for people to be more present-centered, instead of self-centered, according to the scientists. It is believed that schizophrenia has a strong genetic factor, but certain circumstances come into play as to whether someone at risk for the disease actually develops it. Meditation could help someone, who might otherwise be at risk, avoid contracting the disease, or at least control their symptoms better.

7. It Can Reduce Cholesterol And Help Prevent Cardiovascular Disease

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Scientists discovered, after multiple tests and controls, that a seven-step program in transcendental meditation (which doesn’t require any change in religious or philosophical belief) for just twenty minutes twice a day, can have incredible health benefits. They discovered that this form of meditation can reduce cholesterol levels, lower blood pressure, and reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease. It was also found to decrease the effects of problems like angina pectoris and carotid atherosclerosis. The former involves chest pains due to obstruction or spam of the coronary arteries, and the latter is a constriction of the carotid artery. None of those problems sound very good, but transcendental meditation is a great, cost-effective way to help improve symptoms, though treatment should still involve professional medical care.

6. It Can Help Control And Reduce Asthma Symptoms

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Scientists studied a group of 70 asthma patients who used inhalers regularly, and had them perform yoga meditation over a three-month period. The members of the case group showed improvement in their pulmonary functions, decreased respiratory rate, less need to use their inhalers, fewer asthma attacks, and a decreased pulse rate. The researchers are not entirely sure what caused these incredible effects on the patients, but they believe it may have something to do with an increased amount of endorphin activity, airway muscle dynamics, and better balance in the autonomic nervous system. We could also go with the fact that those with asthma have trouble breathing properly, and meditation is very focused on improving breathing.

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Poem: Look to the sky, I got plans for you baby

look to the sky, i got plans for you baby

i want to be yours

hold and caress me

kiss me with passion

before you undress me

we can lay in a daze

a gentle sense of perfection

lets embrace the confusion

that we feel every second

bitin n’ nibblin

kissing and neckin

fightin then minglin

whippin then wrestlin

you’ve become what i need

you’re leaving quite an impression

you’re a contagious disease

there’s no treatment for infection

i know you hear all the rumors

“he’s only a player”

girl, you don’t know my story

but i’ll let you uncover my layers

i’m not dissin your friends

but girl please be aware

people envy our love

can’t let them destroy what we share

realize i care

i approached with a purpose

your heart is so precious

contrasts your incredible surface

i treasure your beauty

a setting so perfect

Music Video: Bounty Killer – Hip Hopera #ThrowBackThursday

 

Short Film: Kanye West – Runaway (Full-length Clean) (34 Minutes)

 

Equalize Love|Gay Rights, No Choice But to Fight for What’s Right by @HaleyBehre

Being gay is something one does not choose.

Rather it is who they are.

It is innate and second nature.

If it was a choice do you think people would willingly choose to take the road less traveled, knowing they are not seen equally under the law and, in some cases, can be prosecuted for being who they are, gay? I don’t know, maybe one would choose to take the road less traveled even if they had the choice.

But being gay is not a choice.

It is who they are.

Just like it is who I am to be a heterosexual, Asian American, who is, among other character traits, stubborn and passionate.

It is not something I choose, and my traits are something I sometimes wish I could change. But I can’t. They are as apart of me as being gay is apart of others. And people need to learn to accept that.

So why change who someone is? We are all people, with our differences, and we all deserve the right to live as we wish to [granted it does not cause harm to another].

The way I see it, there are some issues I may not agree with personally [for instance gun laws, but I won’t get into that as that is a separate issue], but that does not mean I would want to deny someone else their happiness, their rights.

After all, how does their happiness affect me in the long run? The answer: it doesn’t. It’s their happiness and that’s the beauty of it.

Every person, regardless of their race, age, gender, sexual orientation, class etc., deserves to be happy and that means being able to pursue whatever they may wish [so long as it does not infringe on another’s rights or hurt anyone].

Just like being a stubborn and passionate, heterosexual Asian American does not define me, being gay does not, and should not, define who someone is.

Actions— that is what defines you.

Will you be the type of person to fight or flight? Will you be the type of person willing to face scrutiny and criticism for what’s right? Or will you merely stand silently, hoping and praying someone else has the guts to stand up, be a voice of change?

So I think the important question before us regarding gay rights is: how do you want to be defined?

I for one want to be defined as one who fights for what’s right.

Are you with me?

By Haley Behre

Human Rights Activist/PPA Co-Chair

Top 10 Mistakes Presenters Make

By Debbie Fay|Forbes

10. Thinking everybody’s a comedian: If you are funny, good for you! Everyone loves to laugh, and Lord knows grown-ups don’t laugh nearly as much as we should. BUT, you don’t have to be funny to be a good presenter. In fact, the only thing you DO have to be is yourself. Audiences only listen to people they trust, and the only way to be trusted is to be authentic. The only way to be authentic is to be YOU.

9. Being a stranger in a strange land: Always get to the site of your presentation early; the day before if possible, but at least a half hour before you’re scheduled to appear. When you arrive early you have the opportunity to familiarize yourself with the room in which you’ll be speaking and you’ll get to meet some ofyour audience members; a great way to break the ice and increase your comfort level. Most important, you can mention them or their area of expertise in your speech and exponentially increase audience interest.

8. Winging it: I am always astounded at people who tell me (with pride) that they don’t prepare for their speeches; they prefer to speak “off the cuff.” Yikes. You MUST plan and prepare no matter if you are speaking for 10 minutes or 10 times that. NO one likes to listen to someone ramble, meander, digress or repeat themselves. I believe it was Mark Twain who said extemporaneous speaking requires LOTS of preparation. Just do it.

7. Going Long: It is NEVER NEVER a good idea to speak longer than your allotted time. You should either end a few minutes early or finish right on time. In fact, if you are one of many speakers, and you’re speaking right before lunch or worse, just before the end of the day, make yourself a hero and go 10 minutes short. Then make yourself available for questions at lunch, cocktail hour, etc. Those who want to hear more will seek you out. Everyone else will LOVE you simply for being sympathetic to their empty stomachs and full minds.

6. Telling it All: You’re the expert, and they’ve come to hear you speak. The common impulse is to tell them everything you know. WRONG. The best way to organize your material is around the rule of threes, something I consider magic. I strongly discourage you from ever trying to put across more than five main points. Why? It’s simple. Your audience can’t retain more than five, and if you insist on giving them more,they will 1.) Dump everything you’ve said up to that point and 2.) Become angry.  Be clear, concise, and considerate. Organize your thoughts in 3 big bundles so that your audience can do the same.

5. Apologizing: Nothing makes an audience more uncomfortable than hearing a speaker apologize forsomething a.) They hadn’t even noticed, b.) Had no way of knowing was wrong or missing, and c.) Is distracting them from getting the message. Likewise with anything that might go wrong that YOU knowabout but the audience doesn’t – ignorance is bliss.

4. Reading: You should never ever read a slide, flip chart, overhead, handout etc., unless you’re presenting to kindergartners or anyone else who doesn’t know how to read. An audience can read 7-10 times faster than you can speak. Plus, they CAN READ. Why should they sit and listen to you read it to them?

3. Creating visuals that aren’t aids: Speaking of reading slides, you should never show slides, or overheads, or flip charts that are text intensive. Period. Your visual aids should always be something that says what you (with words) cannot. Get it? We’re talking charts, graphs, pictures, cartoons, music. Any visual aid you create should act as a synergistic component; it should illuminate in ways that are beyond you and your words.

2. Neglecting to Practice: There is simply no way around this one. You MUST practice. OUT LOUD. And you must know your introduction and conclusion cold. The easiest way to let “stage fright” get the better of you is to allow yourself to stand up in front of a group of people without ever having heard the words you’re about to say come out of your mouth. All of the great speakers practice, and they practice alot.

1. Not getting HELP: None of us is good at everything. Ham that I am, I wouldn’t try and do my own taxes EVER. My wonderful genius accountant does my taxes (and he happens to be a good public speaker too). If you are struggling with any or all of the BIG TEN, get help!! You’ll be glad you did, and on your wayto being heard.

Debbie Fay is the founder of bespeak presentation solutions, llc, a public speaking coaching, presentation development company. Debbie helps people of all ages and vocations design and deliver presentations that get heard and get results. For more information, point your browser to; www.bespeakpresentations.com or contact Debbie at beheard@bespeakpresentations.com.

20 Success Tips From @Oprah Winfrey

Photo courtesy of sheisdiva.com

1. Plant the seed of success today and focus on it, tomorrow it will grow and you will shine as a result

“My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.”

2. Mastering yourself is a never ending process, but one you definitely need to engage in

“As you become more clear about who you really are, you’ll be better able to decide what is best for you – the first time around.”

3. Leave your fears at the door because most of the time they only exist in your mind

“The thing you fear most has no power. Your fear of it is what has the power. Facing the truth really will set you free.”

4. Only eat with those you starved with

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”

5. Use your right to use your life in whatever manner you please

“Understand that the right to choose your own path is a sacred privilege. Use it. Dwell in possibility.”

6. Before you can see the sun, you first have to walk through the rain

“Failure is a stepping-stone to greatness.”

7. Direct your energy towards your goals. It’s limited so expend it wisely.

“Energy is the essence of life. Every day you decide how you’re going to use it by knowing what you want and what it takes to reach that goal, and by maintaining focus.”

8. Don’t forget to enjoy what you already have

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.”

9. Surround yourself with people who elevate you to new heights. If you’re not motivated to excel by seeing those around you reach success, you need to associate with new people.

“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”

10. Before you can change your life, you first have to change your mind, and you know when you can do that? Whenever you please.

“The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.”

11. Own your moment

“Do the one thing you think you cannot do. Fail at it. Try again. Do better the second time. The only people who never tumble are those who never mount the high wire. This is your moment. Own it.”

12. The depth of your struggle, determines the height of your success

“Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.”

13. Even when life is going down a direction you despise, learn from your wounds because the light exists in even the darkest of tunnels. Find it.

“Turn your wounds into wisdom.”

14. View yourself to be the person you desire to become

“I don’t think of myself as a poor deprived ghetto girl who made good. I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good.”

15. Chase your dreams and drench yourself in the process for it is the best part

“I don’t believe in failure. It is not failure if you enjoyed the process.”

16. Set your own expectations and worry about achieving solely the ones you set for yourself, not what someone else expects of you.

“I have a lot of things to prove to myself. One is that I can live my life fearlessly.”

17. Strive for something greater than what you see around you

“I remember a specific moment, watching my grandmother hang the clothes on the line, and her saying to me, ‘you are going to have to learn to do this,’ and me being in that space of awareness and knowing that my life would not be the same as my grandmother’s life.”

18. Let your spirit move mountains

“If you want to accomplish the goals of your life, you have to begin with the spirit.”

19. They may ridicule you, they may hate you, but they cannot deny your greatness. So be great.

“I was raised to believe that excellence is the best deterrent to racism or sexism. And that’s how I operate my life.”

20. See it before it appears

“I always knew I was destined for greatness.”

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29 Ways To Stay Creative

Poem: My Story Ain’t The Only One I’m Trying To Tell, A Love Story Pt. 1

To begin, let me start at the end,
I confess my mind was once a mess,
Instead of judging, give your ego a rest,
Why you upset?
I’m still smiling until the sun sets,
At home the son sets,
//the dinner table as his sister makes sure the foods blessed
Moms paychecks leave us unimpressed,
Upset,
My friends I’m jealous of and looking back I regret,
Thoughts of envy, mixed with indirect threats
Shady gazes, going through dangerous phases,
18 years young // drowning in a sea of racists,
Don’t need a statement, even Black American’s hated,

But patience paid off, like yea, mama I made it

Drinking Kenyan coffee has become custom since I was traded,
On the road to the American dream, I found myself in Nairobi celebrating with my team

Or so it seems,

In between grinding and finding time to breathe,
Life has found a place right between,
// my shoulders to plant a seed that has grown into a tree
// full of leaves that fall when rain pours creating new seeds beneath the earth’s feet
I’m here,

because I believe that my purpose was to persevere
My triumph was in my failure, I wouldn’t dry any tear,
God lifted me when I feared, when my mirror was blurry he made it clear,
I remember looking at my girl when she called me weird,
Eyes still sunken from the tears, What was I scared of, maybe the time’s here
Need to confront the emotions, My heart is all ears,
My mind is running laps, chasing thoughts of love from the rear,
Well love can’t be caught,
The butterfly on your shoulder, move and she disappears,
Baby I’m here, this love can’t be compared,
If love was a breath, baby you’d be my air,
Corny — I don’t care,
This love is for us to share.

Must Read|50 Simpe Life Secrets and Tips

50 Life Secrets and Tips

50 life secrets and tipsWe could all use a little help and some tips every now and again. Life is a process of growth and bettering yourself. and in light of that, Here are 50 Life Secrets and Tips:

Memorize something everyday.

Not only will this leave your brain sharp and your memory functioning, you will also have a huge library of quotes to bust out at any moment. Poetry, sayings and philosophies are your best options.

Constantly try to reduce your attachment to possessions.

Those who are heavy-set with material desires will have a lot of trouble when their things are taken away from them or lost. Possessions do end up owning you, not the other way around. Become a person of minimal needs and you will be much more content.

Develop an endless curiosity about this world.

Become an explorer and view the world as your jungle. Stop and observe all of the little things as completely unique events. Try new things. Get out of your comfort zone and try to experience as many different environments and sensations as possible. This world has so much to offer, so why not take advantage of it?

Remember people’s names

so that they feel appreciated and for your own future benefit when you want something from that person. To do this, say their name back to them when they introduce themselves. Then repeat the name in your head a number of times until you are sure you have it. Continue to use their name in conversation as much as possible to remove any chance of forgetting it. If you’re still having trouble, make up a rhyme about their name: “Dan the Man” or “Natalie flatters me.”

Get fit!

It’s ridiculous to think that we have one body, one sole means of functioning, and people are too lazy to take care of themselves. Fit bodies lead to better health, confidence and more success with romantic endeavors. I’d say those are 3 very good reasons to get in shape.

Learn to focus only on the present.

The past is unchangeable so it is futile to reflect on it unless you are making sure you do not repeat past mistakes. The future is but a result of your actions today. So learn from the past to do better in the present so that you can succeed in the future.

Even more specifically, live in THIS moment.

Even 10 minutes ago is the past. If you live purely in this moment you will always be happy because there is nothing wrong in this split-second.

Smile more often.

Whenever you get a grin on your face, your brain is releasing serotonin, the happy hormone. Smiling is the natural way to force yourself to be happy. Many people even smile for five minutes straight in the morning to get themselves in a great mood for the day. It is a very powerful tool that is utilized less and less as we grow older and need happiness more than ever. Just remember that while happiness leads to smiles, smiles also lead to happiness.

Drink water.

Hydration is tremendously important for overall health. Soda has absolutely ZERO nutritional content; it’s like pouring a punch of sugar and syrup into your cup. Instead, fill it with life-replenishing water. It may taste plain at first if you’re coming off of a heavy soda-drinking streak, but you’ll soon find yourself addicted to it. 10 glasses per day is optimal, how many have you been getting lately?

Don’t take life so seriously!

Learn to laugh at the little things and this whole “existence” thing will be a whole lot easier. Be amused by your mistakes and failures and be thankful that you learned your lesson and won’t mess up like that again. And most importantly do things that you enjoy! Life is not strictly business, it can be mixed with pleasure.

Think positive thoughts.

When you find yourself thinking a negative thought, stop it immediately by any means necessary. Slap yourself in the face, yell something positive at the top of your lungs or jump up and down. Do whatever it takes to get back to a positive mindset as such is essential for continual happiness and success.

Read books.

No explanation needed.

Get in the sun.

Superman was completely re-energized when he flew out to space and soaked in some rays and you can do the same right outside your front door (if you live in a constantly dreary place, my apologies). The sun feels amazing: your entire body will be coursing with warmth and life.

Help others.

I’ll just give you a plethora of reasons why this is a MUST

Helping people has a ripple effect. If you help someone they will feel more obliged to help someone else, and so on. Pay it forward
You grow by giving and helping others. It can change you in ways you never expected
Your relationship with that person will become stronger
It’s the most fulfilling thing you can do on this planet. It not only feels amazing physically, you also feel like a person.
You might be able to call in a favor later when you need some help
Karma (if you believe in it)
Because there are more people in this world than just you

Set aside a specific time to worry each day.

Ponder all of your problems and anxieties during that time so that they will not distract you during work or moments of pleasure. This way you can be extremely efficient with your time and avoid focusing on negative things as much as possible. If you get all of your worry out of the way and have the mental fortitude to keep from reverting back to them, you will be much happier on the daily.

Be honest at all times.

Lies lead to nothing but trouble. Being known as trustworthy is an excellent trait to maintain and essential to having integrity.

Sleep less.

Fully adjusting to a new sleep cycle can take up to 21 days so don’t give up if you feel tired after switching to 5-hour nights. The “required” 8 hour/night is for normal people. If you’re reading THIS article on THIS site, you are not normal. So figure out how much sleep YOU really need and adjust accordingly. As enjoyable as sleep is, waking existence is much more fulfilling and efficient. IF this really sparks your interest, check out alternate sleep cycles with which you can be fine off of 2 hours of sleep per day.

Read “Bringers of Light” and “Conversations with God” by Neale Donald Walsch.

These books will help you decide what you want to do in this life and how to get to that point. They will also profoundly change the way you look at the purpose of existence. Read them!

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Figure out what your goals and dreams are.

So many people wander aimlessly through life simply go for whatever small thing they want moment by moment. Instead, decide what your perfect life consists of and begin to put the steps in motion to reach that place. The most satisfying thing in the world (yes, better than sex, much better) is overcoming a challenge and reaching a goal. We are the happiest when we are growing and working towards something better.

Start your day off right.

Wake up and set aside an hour for personal development activities (meditation, self-introspection, observing nature, etc.) Do the things that make you feel blissful, optimistic and empowered so that you can set a positive tone for your day. I guarantee that once you start doing this, your days will be more enjoyable and fulfilling. Today is going to be the best day of your life. Duh.

Utilize ‘The Burning Method.’

Whenever a fear or worry or complaint comes to mind, close your eyes and imagine writing down the thought on a piece of paper. Then proceed to light the paper and fire and watch it disintegrate. Even better, actually write it down and burn it. You won’t have any problem ridding your mind of the thought after doing this.

Travel.

Anyone who has ever gone anywhere will tell you that traveling is one of the most exciting and life-changing activities that you can do. Observing a different culture will expand your mind while making you further appreciate the life you already live. This goes back to becoming an explorer: this world is your jungle so go explore! Who knows, maybe you’ll find a place you love so much that you decide to move. Imagine the positive repercussions a new environment could have on your life.

The Rubber Band Method.

This is the third and final way to rid yourself of negative thoughts (hopefully by now you have figured out that this is very important!). Place a rubber band around your wrist and snap it against your skin anytime a negative thought finds its way into your head. This operant conditioning technique associates a slight pain with negative thoughts like Pavlov associated food/salivation with the sound of a bell. Sounds a bit cruel at first but it only stings for a second, I promise. Plus the outcome, having only positive thoughts, far outweighs a little slap on the wrist here and there.

Learn to be unaffected by the words of others.

Most people get very upset when they are called negative names by others, but there is a simple trick to overcoming this. Here it is: If I went up to you and called you a fire hydrant, would you be upset? Of course not. Obviously you are not a fire hydrant, you are a human being. The same concept applies to when someone calls you something that you know you are not. They are foolish for saying such things, so why would you react with such anger? The only exception is when someone calls you something that is true! In this case, you should thank them for alerting you to a weakness, one that you can now work on changing.

Read “Zen and the Art of Happiness” by Chris Prentiss.

This book will give you the knowledge and instruction to be happy at all times regardless of the circumstances. Yes, this sounds like an oversimplification of happiness, but I assure you that this book will change you in an amazing way.

Develop the ability to forgive.

Forgiveness is something that most people fail miserably at even thought it’s so simple. Grudges only bring more misery to those who hold them and prevent good relations with the target. YOU makes mistakes all of the time so why not have mercy when other do? Remaining angry feels horrible while forgiving someone brings a refreshing sensation to the mind and healing to the relationship.

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Be the person that makes others feel special.

Be known for your kindness and sympathy.

Learn to lucid dream

or to realize when you are dreaming so that you can control your dreams. Sleep feels good, but it’s rather boring and unproductive. With lucid dreaming under your belt, night-time can be even more exciting than when you are awake. You can do anything: fly, travel to other planets, party with a celebrity, get intimate with your dream boy/girl, etc. Many lucid dreams have also reported being able to speak directly with the subconscious during dreams by demanding to be taken to it after becoming lucid. For those that know a thing or two about your subconscious, that is a BIG deal.

Visualize daily.

It has been said and proven time and time again that what you focus on is what you get. If you complain all of the time, you will run into more of the things you complain about. The same goes for good things like health, wealth and happiness. So spend some time in the morning imagining yourself achieving whatever it is that you currently desire. Focus is key in this exercise, so choose a quiet environment where you won’t be disturbed. If you’re having trouble focusing and continually find that your mind has wandered to something else, read about meditation in the following life tip. There is a lot more to this concept, so check out the full article on visualization and the law of attraction here.

Meditate everyday for at least 20 minutes.

In this modern world where everyone is so connected to everything else via cell phones, TV and internet, most people rarely enjoy the beauty of silence. The ability to quiet your mind and relax your body is an art and skill that everyone should develop. Simply sit somewhere, preferably in nature, and focus on your breathing or try to think about nothing. This is going to be extremely hard at first! You might find it boring or just plain impossible to think of nothing, but you will get better and you will learn to love it. Post-meditation, you will feel extremely clear-headed and.. well, just plain wonderful. The only way to really understand this sensation is to try it.

Learn to control your mind.

What kind of skilled human are you if you cannot even control your own thoughts? While the human mind is described as being a stream of consciousness, that does not mean you can’t decide where your stream flows. Techniques like meditation and the 3 ways to flush out negative thoughts will aid you immensely in learning to control your mind.

Learn to control your emotions.

The only person that can make you unhappy is you! You are the one that decides to be affected by the words and actions of others. Realize this so that the next time you experience a negative emotion, you can find the strength within yourself to overcome it.

Take a class in speed reading.

Books are full of information that can enhance your knowledge-base, vocabulary and yourself as a person. Speed reading is an easy way to get at this info faster so that you can have more time for other endeavors.

Relax!

This one is for you workaholics out there (myself included). Yes, work is very important and productive but you need to take some time to chill out everyday or you are going to burn out faster than a candle with no oxygen. Additionally, you need to reward yourself for a job well done. What’s the use of doing all of that work if you can’t have a little fun from time to time anyways?

Work on making good first impressions.

Practice a strong, firm handshake and the small talk that generally goes along with meeting someone for the first time. People won’t know what to think of you if you have nothing more to say beyond “My name is _______, nice to meet you.” Also make sure you remember names, as mentioned previously. Who knows, you may be going into business with or marrying this person you’re meeting for the first time if you make a good impression. Be sure and make an excellent one.

Learn to use your eyes to their full potential:

Make constant eye contact when in conversation. Looking away (especially down) is a sign of inferiority and uncertainty. Instead, look at your conversation partner dead in the eyes and keep them locked on
Master the piercing stare. You know when someone looks at you and it feels like they can see into your soul? Well that’s not a hereditary characteristic, it just takes practice. Work on sharpening your gaze in the mirror. You’ll know you have it when it’s intimidating to continue looking at yourself Master the one-eyebrow raise. This one isn’t necessary by any means, but hey, why not? Pick a brow to learn with and go look in a mirror. Raise both of your eyebrows but use your hand to hold down the brow that you want to stay down. This will probably feel very stupid at first but if you keep trying, you will eventually pin down the muscle you need to flex to get that one brow up

Be mysterious.

Don’t let off everything about you and definitely leave out some major details. There is something both alluring and mesmerizing about someone who no one knows fully about. I’m not saying to confide in no one or to alienate yourself. Just think James Bond.

Come up with a life mantra.

You know, like “Carpe Diem” or “Live life to the fullest,” but not as cliché. Make it something that really hits home with you so that you will actually stick to it. Make sure it’ not so specific that it rarely applies but also not so general that it’s not personal.

Get good at something.

Call it a hobby or a passion, whatever it is, just get damn good at it. Your occupation does not count! Make it something that you can practice often enough to excel at. Examples: Magic tricks, surfing, ping-pong, creating short films, and unicycling. It can be anything but I would recommend choosing something that: 1) You are passionate about 2) You can bust out at any moment to display your skills for any discerning crowd. My mind goes immediately to aerobatics and break dancing, but that’s just me.

Work out those abs.

Above any other muscle group in the entire body, the abs are the most important. They constitute your core, the center point of your body. Your ability to balance comes almost completely from the strength of your abdominal muscles and balance is vital to performance in any physical activity. Summary: they’re very important. For more info on how to work out your abs, check out this video.

Keep your brain sharp.

The majority of people are stuck in ruts. They go to the same job everyday, hang out with the same friends and eat at the same places. While that may feel safe, it’s not the most stimulating lifestyle for your brain. Those synapses have been built up enough, so try something that you do NOT know how to do! Buy a model car kit, master the art of sudoku or crosswords, or go pick up another major at your nearest college. The point is you need to be learning new things to keep your brain honest. Form new synapses by forcing your mind to work in ways it has not worked before. Just like physical workouts, doing too much of the same exercise will eventually give no results. Switch it up!

Read something inspirational right before bed and after waking.

This will set get you in a great mood for sleep and for the day. Read anything from a famous speech to your favorite self-improvement book. Try to read something that get’s you really excited in the morning especially so that you’ll leave your house beaming with energy and wonder.

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Do what you love.

There is a huge difference between making a life and making a living; which one are you making right now? So many spend their entire lives trying to make as much money as possible so that they can afford to do what they really want later. It makes no sense to settle in life until you’re 65 so that you can retire and do what you want when you’re already WAY past your prime. We only live life once so why wouldn’t you want to spend it pursuing your bliss? To do anything else would be a tragic waste of the freedom you are allowed if you are reading this right now. Follow your bliss and you will be a thousand times more happy than your retirement date and 40+ years younger.

Choose your friends wisely.

You are affected far more than you think by the people you spend your time with. Do your friends share your values? Do they encourage you when you speak of your goals and dreams or do they scoff? Make sure the people around you are conducive to the lifestyle you want to lead or you will find yourself being dragged again and again into behavior that distances you from your desires. Friends with a habit of producing negative thoughts will especially hinder you. This can be a hard task to follow through with if you realize you good friend is one of these saboteurs, but you must be firm! Don’t let anyone get in the way of you being all that you can be.

Don’t burn bridges.

By that I mean maintain your relationships with people even if you think you are never going to see them again. For example, if you are quitting your job, don’t chew out your boss before leaving! You might run into him/her again later and life and wish you had never severed ties so harshly. You never know when you might need the help of someone you knew in the past. Plus there is already too much hatred in this world, why add more towards the people you interact with?

Keep a journal/diary.

It sounds like a very monotonous habit at first, but when you get into it, that little book will become a great way to organize your thoughts and track your growth over the years. Most of us already stay awake in bed at night pondering the events of the day anyways so why not document those thoughts in an organized fashion? That will allow you to look back and observe how your way of thinking has changed over time.

Read “New Pyscho-Cybernetics” by Dr. Maxwell Maltz.

This book will explain why the content of your thoughts has such a profound effect on your life through religious, philosophical and scientific arguments. A must read for completely understand who this life thing works.

Learn to use and trust your subconscious/intuition.

When you spend time in silence everyday, listen not for words but for a feeling that tells you to do something. Do not mistake your own reasoning and thoughts for those of your subconscious. If you can track where the thought came from, (this thought led to that thought which led to this thought, etc.) then it was not from your subconscious. Learning to accurately discern between the two will allow you to tap into knowledge that you don’t consciously have.

Develop a charismatic personality.

You know, the kind of personality that is surrounded by people constantly and is the life of the party. Start visualizing yourself as THAT person. Maybe take a short course on dynamic speaking and learn some jokes. Take the time to learn some party tricks and sleight of hand. Most importantly, believe that you already are charismatic even if you fail at being the center point of the next party. Lie to yourself constantly and tell yourself that you are more warm and gregarious than Ronald Regan. Belief is the first step! Reality will come soon after.

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Love is all there is.

If you truly want to be a master of life, let love be in your every action. Love your friends, family and enemies alike. This is the most difficult thing to do out of this entire list, which is why it is listed at #50. But if you accomplish this, you will be seen as a leader among everyone that allows hate, envy, disgust and all other negative emotions into their lives. Think Gandhi. Love is so rare in this world when compared to the massive presence of hate that by exuding love, you will immediately see yourself and the people around you change. Love. Love. Love.

Source: Mind Openerz

25 Colleges Where The Students Are Both Hot and Smart

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25 Colleges Where The Students Are Both Hot and Smart,
According to College Prowler

Beautiful people who are DUMB DUMB DUMB DUMB

(<1300 on the SATs) need not apply.

I don’t even know why you’re still reading this.

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College Prowler, a message board for college reviews “written
by students, for students” (except it’s about 65% high
school seniors and college student’s parents), released a
fluffy, somewhat-mastabatury listicle ranking the 25 colleges
where the students are both “hot and smart.”
Sorry people at the ASUs, PSUs, MSUs, CUs, KUs, UofTs,
UofFs, and THE Us of the world: The artibters at
College Prowler think your a bunch of fugly dumbasses.
Making the list? Vassar, Miami University, Bucknell,
UCLA, UCSB, yada yada yada ramalamadingdong:
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25. California Polytechnic State University – San Luis Obispo
24. University of California – Santa Barbara23. Vassar College22. Miami University (Ohio)21. Bucknell University20. Wake Forest University19. University of California — Los Angeles

18. Liberty University

17. Duke University

16. Brigham Young University — Idaho

15. Yale University

14. University of Southern California

13. Middlebury College

12. Wesleyan University

11. Biola University

10. Boston College

9. Santa Clara University

8. Stanford University

7. Colgate University

6. Howard University

5. Vanderbilt

4. Georgetown University

3. University of Virginia

2. Pacific Union College

1. Brigham Young University

In the words of BroBible’s only Georgetown Hoya,

Lance Pauker: “Having BYU at number one is like

ordering 2 meals at the Cheesecake Factory.”

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Kenya’s Young Scholar Launches Positive Press Agency To Change The Face Of Africa|Interview with @TechMoran

CEO Weekends: Kenya’s Young Scholar Launches The Positive Press Agency To Change The Face Of Africa

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Today March 2, Kenya’s version of the Good News Network goes live in a move the founder says will change the face of Africa for good.

Positive Press Agency is a new start up Media Agency founded in Nairobi by Charles Gichane, who works as a Business anchor and reporter for CapitalFM.

According to Gichane, “Most news consumed by Kenyans and Africans at large is often negative or slanted to push for tragedy in order to create an emotional bond with viewers — but we at PPA feel this model is flawed and designed to keep people in fear.”

Tragic stories that involve murder, corruption, rape and crime often dominate headlines in the local Dailies and online creating an environment that is susceptible to violence because our media platforms have made TRAGEDY the norm — all in the name of profit.

Problem Solved

Gichane adds, “At PPA we will strive to look at news from a positive angle and perspective — so instead of publishing a tragic story following a terrorist attack, we will look to tell the story of the HEROIC young boy who risked his life in order to rush his youngest sister to the nearest hospital. Instead of starting the story with the tragic angle, we would begin to tell the story of how a young boy saved his sisters life — before telling the reader the full scope of the story.”

This model of telling the news would be a complete paradigm shift and an obvious optimistic and perhaps naive attempt at shaping the narrative so that it reflects a positive society. Gichane also says he believes this is not only possible, but it will be adopted very quickly by other media houses.

For PPA — the added competition is a blessing in disguise because it will help push other media houses – with greater numbers in terms of viewership and readership — to start telling the news using the positive paradigm that PPA intends to make the NORM.

Here is the full interview.

When was it launched?

We will be launching this Saturday March 2 2013.

Who are its founders?

I am the founder (Charles Muraguri Gichane). My nickname is “Mura” a shortened version of Muraguri, which means “medicine man” in Kikuyu. Kikuyu is my mother tongue and Kenya is where I was born two days before Valentines on February 12th 1988. I was raised in North America and I’ve spent 17 years in Canada and America (Toronto, Vancouver, New York) but I recently moved back to Nairobi, Kenya after graduating from Syracuse University in 2010 with a bachelors degree in Broadcast Journalism. Therefore, I’m Kenyan-Canadian-American…a walking triple entendre!

  • I’m a writer.
  • A poet.
  • A journalist.
  • A story teller.
  • A positive thinking addict.
  • A music (hip-hop) enthusiast.
  • An NBA fanatic.
  • A hopeless romantic.
  • A service based human being who wants to change the world by being the change the world needs.
  • I love: to love, to laugh, to live, to listen, and to learn.
  • I would be nothing without my family and friends.

What inspired you?

I grew up in Canada and the United States and for a long time I came to resent and even feel ashamed of being African — due to the images and stories that I’d watch on TV, hear on the radio or read online. Everything about the continent seemed polluted and negative — and until I finally came back to visit (after a 10 year gap) just before going to Syracuse University to study Journalism, I always tried to distance myself from my African heritage.

When I came to visit in 2006, My entire Outlook of Africa changed once I saw the people and the environment itself. Since then, my goal has always been to create a media company that changes the narrative on Africa as well as completely transforming the story telling paradigm, so that news is told from a positive angle instead of the tragedy based model most organizations use today.

My goal has always been to become a successful independent freelance journalist covering stories that reflect issues that I’m passionate about.

Being born in Kenya, yet having lived the majority of my life in Canada and the United States has allowed me to expand my view of the world, while giving me opportunities in educational advancement that would have been harder to achieve while in Africa.

Although I’m grateful for my experiences in North America, I came to the realization a long time ago that the greatest good I can do with my skills and talents is to aid other Africans who seek to have a voice in the media and business world; a world strictly regulated and monitored by dictatorship governments ruling the developing continent.

As a journalist, my responsibility is to tell their stories through a positive lens and not through the lens of the international media, which often chooses to focus on the negative aspects of Africa such as warfare, crime, disease, and corruption. Although many of these issues exist in Africa, I’ve also been overjoyed to realize that the spirit of human beings transcends such negative circumstances, as people in Kenya have proved to be warmhearted, loving, kind, and generous citizens in the midst of such dire environments.

My ultimate career goal, which is now being realized, is to develop a media company, which I’ve named “PositivePressAgency” or PPA, highlighting the good taking place in Kenya and Africa as a whole, in hopes of changing the global perception of the country/continent.

“PositivePressAgency” will use media in the form of radio, print, television, films, online blogs, and traditional African orature (theater, plays, spoken word, etc) to provide a comprehensive DIGITAL platform showcasing the great things Kenyans and Africans in general are doing to better their communities in order to contribute positive change.

Is PPA promising?

The timing of this launch is very strategic as we hope to be the voice of the voiceless during the upcoming General Election on March 4th. Our website, www.positivepressagency.com is currently averaging 100,000 viewers per month, with 30% of the views coming from Kenya.

At the moment, we are popular among the youth, as well as the middle class working population around the country who are savvy on social media or regularly receive their news off the web.

We have a team of about 20 young men and women in Nairobi who are passionate about promoting peace during the upcoming election, in addition to three members who are working from New Jersey, New York City and Rome (for the moment).

We also have a team of about 10 contributors from all over the world who will be sharing our content with their networks to help balance out the news that the international community is getting from CNN, Reuters, AP and BBC, while providing us with their local content so we can provide it for our readers.

Using our positive story telling model, we hope to showcase the positive things that Kenyans are doing in 2013 to make sure these elections remain PEACEFUL.

How will it sustain itself?

PPA has partnered with various companies in Kenya and around the world to provide a product and service that is unmatched in the market. We will be launching on March 2. Please attend to learn more.

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Any competition in any of the countries you are in?

We don’t believe any media agency is doing what we’re doing in terms of telling the story using our positive model or focusing on Africa and our region in order to create wealth through the exchange of information and ideas.

How unique are you from them?

PPA will not advertise on our website using banners or other Pop up ads…We will always remain ad free — the way we will be able to work with companies is by TELLING their stories to consumers so that the people make up their own minds whether the product is for them.

Here are some examples of how we will market companies and organizations. –> http://positivepressagency.com/good-news-2/david-vs-goliath-tangaza-money-takes-on-m-pesa-in-mobile-money-transfers-tangazapesa1/

http://positivepressagency.com/lifestyle/ppa-store/opulence-makeovers-follow-your-desire/
We also feature models, designers, music artists, poets, columnists, bloggers etc.

Any funding yet? How much? From who?

We are completely self funded at the moment.

Challenges?
The ups and downs of being a new company — the challenge of trying to change a model of telling the news that has been ingrained and entrenched within society — it will be hard to convince people that negativity doesn’t make a news story better or more compelling — the media has made that the norm, but that doesn’t have to be the case! That is our uphill battle, but we are more than ready to meet the challenge!

Any upcoming developments, like this this month, next month or in a few months?

There will be many events in the upcoming weeks surrounding PEACE and Breast Cancer Awareness. We are socially responsible FIRST –as a company, that is our foundation — so every few months we will support a new initiative.

Any achievements to date?
We are 3 weeks old as a company and we are at about 100,000 views per month — with over 60 percent coming from the States, but 30+ percent coming from Kenya — but Kenya is quickly catching up and should overtake America by May.

We have been approached and interviewed by http://www.africanachievers.org — nominated as one of the African Achiever Awards to be given out at a later date — and we are partnering with them in order to promote both companies here in East Africa — more details to come soon.

Beauty. Innocence. Hope. The Real Africa by @HaleyBehre

Beauty. Innocence. Hope.

Those are the three words that come to mind when I think of Africa, but it is a vision that not many get to see first hand.

Instead, people see death, disease and disrepair when they think of Africa because that is what is portrayed in the news.

And to tell you the truth, it was what I thought of Africa before I visited the continent.

My stay was very brief— only one month in Kenya— but that glimpse left a lasting impression.

The customs are different, the government is corrupt and death and disease are present— this is all true— but then again, a society’s customs will always be different to someone, a government is always corrupt to some extent and death and disease will be present wherever you may go.

So then why does this define Africa  according to the “West”?

Ignorance.

Ignorance has left Africa the “dark continent”— a place where people believe death and disease follows, where poverty roams rapid.

But if you visit Africa, you will see it is so much more.

There is a beauty both in the people and landscape that is unlike anything I’ve ever seen.  The landscape is untouched, bringing a unique innocence that cannot be paralleled to other places.  Seeing animals live in their natural habitat, not caged for all eyes to see, is an image I will never forget.

Whether it is a lioness hunting for its prey early in the morning or a giraffe extending its neck to eat some leaves or a monkey climbing in the trees— for the first time, we [humans] are the displaced, stepping into their natural habitat. What a surreal site.

The landscape is matched ONLY by the beauty of its people.

The people I met in Kenya were filled with a happiness that was not tied to money or possessions…but to life.  I saw a woman carry a bunch of items on her back up a hill, two children playing with a stick and can lid and a teenager working on the beach to provide for his family. They did not have much, but their happiness could be felt, and it was contagious.

It is a country unlike America, where roads have few traffic lights, some houses have no toilet seats and most only have the necessities.

It is a country unlike America, where people’s motivation, vision and strength are pure and enduring, not superficial and temporary.

Kenya opened my mind to see the true Africa— a place that does have disease, death and poverty, but a place that also has unmatched potential, growth and hope.

If people could only see the true Africa, then I know they’d be just as moved and inspired as I am to shine light on its beauty, innocence and hope and let them take it from there.

By Haley Behre

Human Rights Activist|Co-Chair PPA

 

The Secret Meeting that Changed Rap Music and Destroyed a Generation

“The Secret Meeting that Changed Rap Music and Destroyed a Generation”

This anonymous letter landed in my inbox about a minute ago:

Hello,

After more than 20 years, I’ve finally decided to tell the world what I witnessed in 1991, which I believe was one of the biggest turning point in popular music, and ultimately American society. I have struggled for a long time weighing the pros and cons of making this story public as I was reluctant to implicate the individuals who were present that day. So I’ve simply decided to leave out names and all the details that may risk my personal well being and that of those who were, like me, dragged into something they weren’t ready for.

Between the late 80′s and early 90’s, I was what you may call a “decision maker” with one of the more established company in the music industry. I came from Europe in the early 80’s and quickly established myself in the business. The industry was different back then. Since technology and media weren’t accessible to people like they are today, the industry had more control over the public and had the means to influence them anyway it wanted. This may explain why in early 1991, I was invited to attend a closed door meeting with a small group of music business insiders to discuss rap music’s new direction. Little did I know that we would be asked to participate in one of the most unethical and destructive business practice I’ve ever seen.

The meeting was held at a private residence on the outskirts of Los Angeles. I remember about 25 to 30 people being there, most of them familiar faces. Speaking to those I knew, we joked about the theme of the meeting as many of us did not care for rap music and failed to see the purpose of being invited to a private gathering to discuss its future. Among the attendees was a small group of unfamiliar faces who stayed to themselves and made no attempt to socialize beyond their circle. Based on their behavior and formal appearances, they didn’t seem to be in our industry. Our casual chatter was interrupted when we were asked to sign a confidentiality agreement preventing us from publicly discussing the information presented during the meeting. Needless to say, this intrigued and in some cases disturbed many of us. The agreement was only a page long but very clear on the matter and consequences which stated that violating the terms would result in job termination. We asked several people what this meeting was about and the reason for such secrecy but couldn’t find anyone who had answers for us. A few people refused to sign and walked out. No one stopped them. I was tempted to follow but curiosity got the best of me. A man who was part of the “unfamiliar” group collected the agreements from us.

Quickly after the meeting began, one of my industry colleagues (who shall remain nameless like everyone else) thanked us for attending. He then gave the floor to a man who only introduced himself by first name and gave no further details about his personal background. I think he was the owner of the residence but it was never confirmed. He briefly praised all of us for the success we had achieved in our industry and congratulated us for being selected as part of this small group of “decision makers”. At this point I begin to feel slightly uncomfortable at the strangeness of this gathering. The subject quickly changed as the speaker went on to tell us that the respective companies we represented had invested in a very profitable industry which could become even more rewarding with our active involvement. He explained that the companies we work for had invested millions into the building of privately owned prisons and that our positions of influence in the music industry would actually impact the profitability of these investments. I remember many of us in the group immediately looking at each other in confusion. At the time, I didn’t know what a private prison was but I wasn’t the only one. Sure enough, someone asked what these prisons were and what any of this had to do with us. We were told that these prisons were built by privately owned companies who received funding from the government based on the number of inmates. The more inmates, the more money the government would pay these prisons. It was also made clear to us that since these prisons are privately owned, as they become publicly traded, we’d be able to buy shares. Most of us were taken back by this. Again, a couple of people asked what this had to do with us. At this point, my industry colleague who had first opened the meeting took the floor again and answered our questions. He told us that since our employers had become silent investors in this prison business, it was now in their interest to make sure that these prisons remained filled. Our job would be to help make this happen by marketing music which promotes criminal behavior, rap being the music of choice. He assured us that this would be a great situation for us because rap music was becoming an increasingly profitable market for our companies, and as employee, we’d also be able to buy personal stocks in these prisons. Immediately, silence came over the room. You could have heard a pin drop. I remember looking around to make sure I wasn’t dreaming and saw half of the people with dropped jaws. My daze was interrupted when someone shouted, “Is this a f****** joke?” At this point things became chaotic. Two of the men who were part of the “unfamiliar” group grabbed the man who shouted out and attempted to remove him from the house. A few of us, myself included, tried to intervene. One of them pulled out a gun and we all backed off. They separated us from the crowd and all four of us were escorted outside. My industry colleague who had opened the meeting earlier hurried out to meet us and reminded us that we had signed agreement and would suffer the consequences of speaking about this publicly or even with those who attended the meeting. I asked him why he was involved with something this corrupt and he replied that it was bigger than the music business and nothing we’d want to challenge without risking consequences. We all protested and as he walked back into the house I remember word for word the last thing he said, “It’s out of my hands now. Remember you signed an agreement.” He then closed the door behind him. The men rushed us to our cars and actually watched until we drove off.

A million things were going through my mind as I drove away and I eventually decided to pull over and park on a side street in order to collect my thoughts. I replayed everything in my mind repeatedly and it all seemed very surreal to me. I was angry with myself for not having taken a more active role in questioning what had been presented to us. I’d like to believe the shock of it all is what suspended my better nature. After what seemed like an eternity, I was able to calm myself enough to make it home. I didn’t talk or call anyone that night. The next day back at the office, I was visibly out of it but blamed it on being under the weather. No one else in my department had been invited to the meeting and I felt a sense of guilt for not being able to share what I had witnessed. I thought about contacting the 3 others who wear kicked out of the house but I didn’t remember their names and thought that tracking them down would probably bring unwanted attention. I considered speaking out publicly at the risk of losing my job but I realized I’d probably be jeopardizing more than my job and I wasn’t willing to risk anything happening to my family. I thought about those men with guns and wondered who they were? I had been told that this was bigger than the music business and all I could do was let my imagination run free. There were no answers and no one to talk to. I tried to do a little bit of research on private prisons but didn’t uncover anything about the music business’ involvement. However, the information I did find confirmed how dangerous this prison business really was. Days turned into weeks and weeks into months. Eventually, it was as if the meeting had never taken place. It all seemed surreal. I became more reclusive and stopped going to any industry events unless professionally obligated to do so. On two occasions, I found myself attending the same function as my former colleague. Both times, our eyes met but nothing more was exchanged.

As the months passed, rap music had definitely changed direction. I was never a fan of it but even I could tell the difference. Rap acts that talked about politics or harmless fun were quickly fading away as gangster rap started dominating the airwaves. Only a few months had passed since the meeting but I suspect that the ideas presented that day had been successfully implemented. It was as if the order has been given to all major label executives. The music was climbing the charts and most companies when more than happy to capitalize on it. Each one was churning out their very own gangster rap acts on an assembly line. Everyone bought into it, consumers included. Violence and drug use became a central theme in most rap music. I spoke to a few of my peers in the industry to get their opinions on the new trend but was told repeatedly that it was all about supply and demand. Sadly many of them even expressed that the music reinforced their prejudice of minorities.

I officially quit the music business in 1993 but my heart had already left months before. I broke ties with the majority of my peers and removed myself from this thing I had once loved. I took some time off, returned to Europe for a few years, settled out of state, and lived a “quiet” life away from the world of entertainment. As the years passed, I managed to keep my secret, fearful of sharing it with the wrong person but also a little ashamed of not having had the balls to blow the whistle. But as rap got worse, my guilt grew. Fortunately, in the late 90’s, having the internet as a resource which wasn’t at my disposal in the early days made it easier for me to investigate what is now labeled the prison industrial complex. Now that I have a greater understanding of how private prisons operate, things make much more sense than they ever have. I see how the criminalization of rap music played a big part in promoting racial stereotypes and misguided so many impressionable young minds into adopting these glorified criminal behaviors which often lead to incarceration. Twenty years of guilt is a heavy load to carry but the least I can do now is to share my story, hoping that fans of rap music realize how they’ve been used for the past 2 decades. Although I plan on remaining anonymous for obvious reasons, my goal now is to get this information out to as many people as possible. Please help me spread the word. Hopefully, others who attended the meeting back in 1991 will be inspired by this and tell their own stories. Most importantly, if only one life has been touched by my story, I pray it makes the weight of my guilt a little more tolerable.

Thank you.

Lil Wayne’s “I Am Not A Human Being II” Review by @MrYoungScholar|@liltunechi

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I don’t even know where to start as I begin this review of I Am Not A Human Being II by the enigma that is Lil’ Wayne. Dwayne Carter has come a long way from being a hot boy, he’s sizzled into a grown man full of complexities and absurd tattoos that border on insanity. His rhymes, although witty and clever, have failed to come together to make a story. It’s like he throws the best jabs (boxer analogy) but when it’s time to knock niqqa’s out, Wayne has only succeeded once: Carter III…he sold over one million records in one week, breaking the norm of an industry that is struggling to figure out how to remain sustainable.

Lil’ Wayne is a great, great rapper. As a hip hop artist, he has exceeded everything anyone would have thought he could. As the youngest and least polished member of the Hot Boys with Juvenile, Turk and BG — Wayne has grown, and I have slowly tracked his progress…and I’ve grown to love Wayne as a Hip Hop artist, respect him as a man, and pray for him as a human being.

Wayne got me through college — his music and work ethic during 2006-2010 was unmatched. The quality matched the quantity, and I often found myself defending Waynes crazy antics and questionable actions — because underneath the tattoos and dreads, I saw a young man yearning to be great. He didn’t want to be good…he wanted to be great. And not just great. The greatest of all time. The Best Rapper Alive. For a few years, Wayne earned that title. It was around the mixtape grind phase when Wayne was hopping on everyone’s beat and making the song ten times hotter. He worked with many during his run, but only Mack Maine has remained until today. I remember listening to old SQUAD UP tapes, then he got with Gillie — then with Currency, then with Juelz Santana and Dipset, before creating Young Money and teaming up with Drake and Nicki Minaj to make up possibly the most successful trio of artists not called Lady Gaga, Justin Beiber and Rihanna. Seriously, that line up is the greatest in the history of all HISTORY and Wayne is responsible. I’m not saying they are the most talented or whatever, but they are arguably the most powerful and influential artists in MUSIC. It’s a credit to Wayne and HIS genius as a leader.

Now this whole rant is long overdue, but it brings me to Waynes new album. After Carter 4, I lost a lot of Faith in Wayne. I wont lie or try and sugar coat it, but Carter 4 was the worst work Lil Wayne has ever produced. And it’s understandable, because he was coming off a year at Rikers Island. But still, it hurt for me to hear the material. Wayne didn’t stop producing material after C4 and it progressively got better. He released a few mixtapes that turned out pretty good, and his guest appearances on some of musics biggest songs kept his name buzzin. And anyway, Wayne no longer really needs any sort of buzz — although C4 was underwhelming compared to his prior work, he still managed to nearly sell 1 million records in 1 week.

It’s a testament to his fan base and the loyalty Wayne has created through his undeniable work ethic, but it also shows that Wayne is inching towards that LIVING LEGEND ICON status. Michael Jackson was once such an artist, as was Whitney Houston. It’s scary to think that those stars left us so young, but it’s even more scary to think that Wayne barely just survived the fight of his life due to an alleged drug overdose. Wayne, like many great artists before him has reached a point in his life where there is nearly nothing more he can do, no where higher he can reach. He is trapped within his greatness…he has made all the money in the world, made love to the most beautiful women in the world, driven the best cars, traveled and seen the greatest places. He is only competing with history, and even that is starting to blur because no SINGLE human being is anything like Lil Wayne.

I AM NOT A HUMAN BEING II

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Now the first album in this series was pretty good. It was released just before Wayne went into prison, but it was quality work. It didn’t get the attention it deserved, but it had a stand out track titled “Right Above It” featuring Drake that is one of my favorite tracks to this day. I will review I Am Not A Human Being II track by track:

1. IANAHB // This is the intro track and it immediately is clear that Kanye West played a role on the album. You can hear the piano in the instrumental and unless I’m wrong, I think it’s Kanye West on the keys. Anyway, who ever it is…it’s Kanye inspired…it’s breathtaking and it is the perfect way to start the album. The beat gradually builds up as the piano keys softly are played in the background creating a rainbow of sounds that intertwine and amplify to bring out Weezy’s words. And boy, is he spitting. This is the most lucid and sober Wayne that I’ve ever heard. No seriously, he sounds like he is seriously the greatest rapper to touch the mic. It’s creative and extremely easy to listen to. I’m impressed beyond words. Listening to this track over and over again will allow you to hear lyrics and lines that went over your head. I know this is just the first song on the album, but it’s a great effort. On to the next one. 10/10

2. Curtains // This is like “No Worries” part 2. Or part 1, depending on which one he recorded first. But No Worries was a pretty good single…it did what it was supposed to do. Curtains is a nice beat and the song basically is Wayne explaining why “he swears to God he’s not nervous”. The claps in the beat really GO HARD, and the bass definitely bumps in these Beats by Dre. Lyrics are typical Wayne, most will go over your head although they are simple — Leonardo Da Vinci said that simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. Wayne proves this in every song. It’s not how articulate or wordy you are ie. Kendrick Lamar, you can also use the “140Characters” philosophy of sharing great content. Wayne says some intriguing and power lyrics using very simple wording…or it sounds like it. He doesn’t spit too fast, nor use too many complicated words, but it’s still “smart” music if you know what being “smart” means.

Apparently this track features another rapper called Boo who has worked with Weezy in the past, but he doesn’t really add or take away from the overall song. 8/10

3. Days And Days // This starts out and I immediately though that it should have been in the soundtrack to Django Unchained. But then wayne started rapping, and THANKFULLY it sounds more like it should be the soundtrack to the greatest movie ever created…which will be directed by me of course….No lol.

Anyways, this beat is VICIOUS. WOW, like…this is the type of beat that can help you bench two plates on a bad day in the weight room. To add to the energy, Wayne employs his long time collaborator 2Chainz (the artist formerly known as Tity Boi) Lil Wayne and 2 Necklaces basically go HAM on this track. If you’re looking for really complex or complicated rhymes that have a higher meaning, then stay away from this song. But for a party atmosphere or just riding in the whip to work, this track WORKS BIG TIME. 10/10

4. Gunwalk // the beat starts out ominious and like it would be playing while you were walking in a graveyard (if your life was a movie). On the chorus, Weezy lets us know that when we see him walking with a limp, that’s his “gunwalk”. I guess we learn something new everyday, thank you Professor Tunechi! There’s a low chant that plays through out the entire song saying “yeaaaaaaaa Ho”, It’s pretty Trill — makes me think of Houston and Chopped and Screwed. The track is cool, would definitely bump it over and over again. 10/10

5. No worries // Everyone, or atleast anyone who pays attention to the music world has heard this track. It’s infectious and really catchy. The lyrics hit where they need to, and the beat really bumps in some good Beats! No need to really review it, 9/10

6. Back to You // This is a really interesting song. Really really interesting. It’s a rock song, or pop rock? or Pop Hop? I don’t know, but it definitely feels different…and it feels like a HIT! But it sounds like a track Wayne did for Rebirth (his rock album). It’s definitely rock inspired, but Wayne’s lyrics still are Hip Hop to the CORE. He is really talking that talk…Wayne rarely stays on subject in any of his songs, but when he does stay on topic…it really comes out magical. This is not a true love song, but it’s a song about a relationship he’s had and it’s definitely a good listen. I am not the biggest rock fan, but Wayne, over the last few years has really pushed me to start appreciating the culture. 10/10

7. Trigger Finger ft. Soulja Boy // Now when I saw that Soulja Boy was featured, I got a little concerned..but the instrumental put my worries to rest as soon as it came on. It’s a really nice beat that pops, snaps and hits!…The production on this album so far is really top notch! If you listen to the small breaks or pauses in the beat, you can tell that it’s been edited to the very last detail. As for the overall song, Wayne’s lyrics are on point, diverse and he is delivering them with the ease that he really perfected on No Ceilings. Imagine that flow, with the same witty lyrics, on some incredible OUT OF THE WORLDDDDDDDDDDDD Beats. That’s what IANAHBII sounds like. Get familiar.

Still not sure what Soula Boy brought to the song, but Wayne seems to really try to put on the younger generation. He featured Lil B on his mixtape, and Soulja Boy raps on this track and produces on another. The youth are the future! 9/10 (Cause of Soulja Boy)

8. Beat the Shit // Now. this. is. fight. music. The definition of going to the club with your boys looking to fight people. The beat is intriguing, and I can’t really say any more about the production quality on this album. Half way through, and I already put it head and shoulders above Carter III, which Wayne won a Grammy for. This track features Gunplay and I’m really Happy Wayne let him spit first. Gunplay is a member of Rick Ross’s MMG and he is like the DMX of the rap game….(no offense to DMX, or Gunplay) lol…but they are both habitual drug users and they seem to have a problem of running into problems with the law. Both also bring tremendous energy and UMPH to every track they appear on. DMX is well known for his energy and BARK, but GUNPLAY is quickly making a name for himself. He doesn’t fail on this job and Wayne does his thing! Great song, fun and violent. All at the same time. WOOO. 10/1o

Top verses on I Am Not A Human Being

She says, anyway, what you doing? I say nothing…she say, I know what you should be doing..I said, Open up your legs, walk me through it

Gave her wood, when he wouldn’t

Sit on my face, emulate H, before I eat that p***y, I say my grace @liltunechi x Wowzers

Genius! RT @MrYoungScholar: Same sh*t different air freshener, I don’t play, boy. I ain’t Hugh Hefner @LilTunechi

  1. Man these girls love Wayne, got a bunch of dimes, that’s chump change @liltunechi

     It’s a cold world, I put on the mink. There’s a chain of command. I’m the missing link. @liltunechi
  2. If this is food for thought then I’m guilty of greed, mama said ‘take what you want’, and I took heed @liltunechi

     Same sh*t different air freshener @LilTunechi

    Everybody wanna tell me what I need, you can play a role in my life, but not the lead @liltunechiGod Bless America, this soul/godless America. Heard tomorrow ain’t promised today. The end of time is like an hour away @liltunechi

    Goodbye earth, farewell. High as heaven, eyes low as hell. @liltunechi

    My tongue numb, I can’t talk, no balance and my spine hurt. My mind surfs, my eyes jerk, I try different drugs, I’m diverse @liltunechi

    I say king me, KING me, with my Mushroom, crown on. I graduated to better drugs, got my cap and gown…on @liltunechi

    Smoking on that strong, got me coughing like I’m getting buried, Always loved Mary Jane, knew her when she was just Virgin Mary @liltunechi

    Don’t mess up my high niqqa, I’m too gone bye niqqa, she get d*ck, weed and ignored. That’s D-W-I niqqa @liltunechi

  3. Be dead before I’m dead broke, still burn money, my bread toast @liltunechi

    I’m high as heaven, I’ll pop the reverand to stop the wedding, got more money than memories in the bank..don’t forget it @liltunechi

    Pocket full of ass whoopins, I’m giving them out like nicknames @liltunechi

    I’mma straight rider with a getaway driver, hit you dead on the money // now you dead on arrival @liltunechi

    Better turn to God before I turn to Godzilla, how the hell you gon’ talk sh*t to diarrhea? @LilTunechi

    Tools on deck, tattoos on necks. Life is a b*tch, I’ll make her your ex @LilTunechi

    These girls wanna kick it with me, I’m a sensei, my pockets fat, yours are in shape @liltunechi

    Life ain’t sh*t but women and money, I pass that weed like I studied @liltunechi

    Glock clip full like the moon in the sky, I’m at the gas station, adding fuel to the fire @liltunechi

    Grab life by the horns, put the bullsh*t aside @LilTunechi

9. Rich As Fuck // Now this song is crack in its purest form. The lyrics aren’t the most amazing Weezy has uttered, but they definitely hit HARD. The beat. THE MUFFFGN beat is the reason that this song is out of this world. I’ve had this track for the last month or so on my iTunes, so I’ve grown to love it. I’ve probably played it atleast once a day since I got it, and I haven’t gotten sick of it. That is a testament to the whole song. 2Chainz and Weezy are the new batman and robin. LeBron and DWade. Kobe and Shaq. It’s amazing to see the kind of energy they share on tracks, and their lyrics compliment the other perfectly. Perfect beat, great lyrics, dope vibe. 10/10

10. Trippy // I have a few favorite tracks on this album…tracks that I would put on any top 25 list of best Wayne songs of all time. This is one of them. As is the Intro. This track is incredible…the way Weezy flows and describes his drug escapades is jaw dropping, exciting, fascinating, funny and mesmorizing all in one. His imagination and ideas are out of this world. He really shows why HE IS NOT A HUMAN BEING on this track. It’s true that Wayne doesn’t “write” down his lyrics, and I can see why. No ONE can write down what he thinks of. 10/10.

11. Bitches Love ft Drake and Future // This is one of my favorite tracks of 2013, and it’s because the chorus is so simple, yet very complex and detailed. If you listen to the beat and how Drake and Future intertwine their verses to construct the chorus, the sonic sound is addictive and the lyrics from Weezy are sharp as a guillotine.

This is a perfect track. It’s simple, but each member adds a new element to the song and when you bring it all together, you get arguably the biggest track of the year thus far. This song is massive and I will never get tired of it. 10/10

12. Romance // This is Wayne venturing into his love life for an entire song. Or atleast Weezy version of love. This is also a creative beat which gradually builds up to its climax…with small wrinkles being added with each new bridge. It’s a great song and a possible single. I can see Wayne performing this for huge crowds….and girls throwing a lot of panties and bras to the stage. It’s a smooth track. 10/10

13. God Bless Amerika – I remember when I reviewed Waynes The Carter III album in 2008 and I wrote that Wayne was inching to the Eminem, JayZ, Nas, Tupac, and Biggie Mount Rushmore of Hip Hop Greats, but he needed to expand his content. He needed to speak on issues that mattered to the people. He needed to share his views on issues that people are affected by. And in this song, much like Shoot Me Down from the Carter III, really is Wayne opening up his more intellectual and deep thinking side. It’s a remarkable switch – when you see the shift from easy loving, funny and witty rapper turn into a deep, philosophical genius, but Wayne has treaded on this tight rope his entire career. He really delivers on this track, not much I can say about it other than it’s probably my favorite Wayne Track in his whole career. It’s the first time on the album where I felt as if Wayne was coming to terms with his mortality and greatness. It’s a somber feeling tune, but it definitely delivers a powerful and positive message. If you read between the lines. 10/10

14. Wowzers // When I first heard this track, I immediately tweeted that this was the track of the year. Now, I meant that this is the biggest song of the year…or it has the potential to be. Not the best or even my favorite, but this beat, which is by Soulja Boy, is like Crack on steroids after binging on Heroin. It’s seriously one of the doper beats I’ve ever heard and it’s cool to see Soulja Boy producing some ill music. The lyrics are on point, Wayne seems to have really taken the C4 backlash personal because on this album his rhymes have been sharp, on point and NECESSARY. There were no wasted lines. Every single one hits. Oh, Trina, Wayne’s ex girlfriend makes an appearance at the end of the song. Between her and Nicki…I’d love to be Weezy. lol

15. Hello // This may be the first miss from Wayne. Or maybe its cause this is a ROCK song. Not a pop rock, or hip pop or whatever…this is ALL ROCK. Like Hard METAL rock…the beat is a little overwhelming if you’re a hip hop fan, so I cant say I’m a fan of this. This is definitely a REBIRTH II track. The great thing about this song is the diversity you can see in Waynes passion for creating music. Even though this is rock, he is still giving 110% and spitting hard lyrics that have message and purpose behind them. I can’t see myself ever bumping this track though, just not my cup of tea. 2/10

16. Lay it Down // Phew, this is more like it. After a weird and unexpected trip into Metal Rock, we’re back on the hip hop trail. This song, like every other song not named Hello, is propelled by a terrific beat that doesn’t sound like anything else on the radio. The lyrics continue to impress, I think it’s safe to say that Wayne is officially back. Now he will never be JCole or Kendrick Lamar, but they will never be Wayne. I don’t know which type of artist is better, more creative or more talented…but I think Wayne is the most marketable and successful because his message can be understood by a much larger group of people in society. Wayne is like Twitter. Those other rappers are like blogs. They say a lot and it’s really great, but Twitter tells you all you need to know in 140 characters. What do you prefer?  Oh yea, Nicki Minaj makes an appearance at the end. But I will only review her verse after I see the video (._.) 10/10

17. Hot Revolver // This is an old song, I think it was supposed to be on his original Rebirth album, which was all rock, but it ended up on a mixtape. I’ve been listening to this track since 2009, but Wayne seems to have polished up the recording. He re-recorded the lyrics and the beat was cleaned up just a tad bit to make it a really good potential single that would blow up on the Top 40 market. For what it is, this song is a classic. Wayne can do rock very well, but when he ventures into Hard Metal Rock…it becomes a problem. 10/10

18. My Homies Still // This beat is all over the place, as are the lyrics. This is probably the weakest song on the album which is saying a lot cause Wayne made it his single. It’s not that it’s a bad song, it just doesn’t come close to measuring up with the other songs on the Record. Big Sean does his thing, and the beat is catchy, but nah. This is the one filler on the album, glad it came at the end….or maybe its cause I’ve heard it over and over on the radio? 7/10

Well, that’s it. Lil Wayne has personally produced the album of his life. This might have been Carter 5, but he wanted to create a huge franchise like the Carter Series so he did it with IANAHB II. Whatever his reasoning, Wayne has given birth to an album that will be resonating in ear lobes all over the world. Other than for Hello, this album was flawless. And Hello might be a big hit with a certain demographic. It is still a high quality track, but it doesn’t belong on a rap album.

I say that to say that Lil Wayne is the Best Rapper Alive. Thank God he is Alive and Thank God for Lil Wayne. I wrote that Lil Wayne was the best rapper in 2008 when I heard Carter III, but over the past few years…new rappers have cropped up, while older ones have seemingly got better. I am a big fan of Drake, Big Sean, JCole, ASAP Rocky, Kendrick Lamar, etc…but I’m also a huge fan of Nas, Jay-Z, Common, TIP and Andre 3000. There’s a lot of great music and artists out there, but it seems as if Wayne is the only one who can seamlessly crossover from Old school to new school, Rock to Hip Hop, Rap to Pop, Baller to Skater, Drug Junky to Intellectual Genius, etc. Wayne is the epitome of enigma, yet he has become the most influential human being in are culture by working as hard as he can to distance himself from being like everyone else. Lil Wayne. I Am Not A Human Being II.

By Charles Gichane

Mr.YoungScholar

9 Clever Ways to Deal with Negative People

9 Clever Ways to Deal with Negative People

The sun shines and warms and lights us and we have no curiosity to know why this is so; but we ask the reason of all evil, of pain, and hunger, and mosquitoes and silly people. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

After years and years of observation and self reflection I came to the realization that the best way to face life’s challenges is to take a good look at yourself, assume responsibility for whatever it is that you are thinking, feeling and living.

If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. ~Mary Engelbreit

For example, if you are interacting with negative people and these are people you have to deal with on a regular basis – like a friend, spouse, a family member or someone you work with, you should never allow their negativity to affect you and what’s most important, you should never blame them if it does.

Never give your power away by blaming others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel.

The moment you do, you become a victim of your circumstances and instead of using your time and energy to overcome life’s challenges, you will get lost in the problems and you will get stuck in a really dark and unhappy place for a very long time.

Today I want to share with you 9 clever ways of dealing with the negativity that comes your way from those you love and care about in a more positive and effective way.

1. Ownership

Go from being a victim, from blaming, judging and criticizing to assuming full responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings. Take a different approach to how you deal with their negativity.

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.  ~Carl Jung

Don’t say:  They are draining my energy; they are making me unhappy; their negative energy is polluting my mind, my body and my life, but rather…

Say: How can I use this situation to my advantage? What am I doing wrong? How can I improve this situation? How can I make my positive energy bigger than their negative energy? How can I heal this situation, myself and the people involved? What can I learn from all of this?

2. LIKE attracts LIKE

Like attracts like and whether we like it or not, we attract in our lives people, events, situations that mirror our internal state of being.

How are you feeling on a regular basis? Are you feeling happy, excited, grateful, loving or are you feeling cranky, judgmental, negative, and frustrated?

I had a period when I was projecting my own unhappiness on to those around me and because of that all I could see was mean and unhappy people. Funny thing, the moment I recovered, the moment I shifted from unhappy to happy, they changed too :)

Like attracts like. It’ll surprise you as long as you live. ~Richard Bach

3. Don’t take your thoughts too seriously

Don’t believe everything you think -  one of the most powerful lessons I have learned from life.

Take a closer look at the negative people that are present in your life.

What is it about them that triggers you?  

What is it about them that affects you so badly?

Are the things they are doing really that bad or is it your mind playing tricks on you? 

The mind is constantly looking for trouble and once you focus on the negative traits of one person, it will be quite challenging to see their positive traits, but that doesn’t mean the positive traits don’t exist.

4. Shift your focus

Ask yourself: Am I willing to find something positive about these people?

Am I willing to see the good qualities in them?

When?

Let the answers come naturally and make sure you are being honest with yourself.

If you feel like you aren’t ready to change the way you look at them, don’t judge yourself for feeling the way you do.

It’s okay if you don’t want to do it right away.

Be gentle and patient with yourself and trust that when the time will be right, you will make this step.

It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier

5. Don’t make their problems your problems

For your own sake and theirs, make sure you don’t make their problems your problems and make sure you don’t make their negativity your own.

If you want to shed light into the dark, you focus on the solutions not on the problems. 

6. Let go of your need to complain

Make sure you take responsibility for your own emotions and state of being.

Please, don’t go around complaining about how much their negativity is affecting you for this will only create more negativity.

Assume responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings and see what YOU can do to feel better, what YOU can do to change the current situation by changing your lenses, by changing your attitude and the way you look at things.

He who has so little knowledge of human nature as to seek happiness by changing anything but his own disposition will waste his life in fruitless efforts. ~Samuel Johnson

7. Raise your positive energy

Energy is contagious and focusing on the negative energy of others won’t create any positivity. On the contrary, it will only create more negativity.

Focus on raising your positive energy and watch the negativity disappear.

How do you raise your positive energy?

By focusing more and more on the things you love about these people that behave in negative ways, by focusing on the things you love about yourself, your life and the world around you.

You do so by thinking of someone you love deeply, by thinking about some of the things you are really passionate about and by doing so you immediately raise your positive energy.

You did an awesome job increasing the negative energy by focusing on the things you dislike, talking about them over and over again and now it’s time to apply the same technique to increase your positive energy.

You can’t have negative and positive energy coexist.  You focus on one or the other and based on that you will feel happy or unhappy. It’s that simple.

8. Be the change you want to see in your world

Trust me when I tell you that this world is nothing more than a reflection of who we are deep down inside.

Seek to feel good. Live life in a positive, cheerful, loving and happy way and trust that by doing so, all the negative people that are present in your life will be affected by your feel good energy.

You can’t change others, you can only change yourself and by doing so you will change the whole world.  Dwell upon this idea until it makes sense to you and start working on changing the world by changing yourself :)

When I am happy, the whole world seems to be happy, when I am sad, sadness is all I see.

Trust that those who are meant to stay in your life will stay and learn from you and you will learn from them as long as they are still there. And those who are meant to leave, will leave.

Learn to go with the flow. Resist nothing.

Never underestimate your power to change yourself; never overestimate your power to change others. ~Wayne W. Dyer

9. Simultaneous Awareness

Work on understanding the duality of life and learn to accept both the negative and the positive traits in people.

Don’t condemn their negativity, don’t judge it and don’t resist it. Allow it to be. Observe and accept it.

Remember, your world is nothing more than a reflection of who you are on the inside.

Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people. ~Carl Jung

Own your thoughts, own your emotions, own your life!

No matter how many challenges you will face in life and no matter how many negative and difficult people you will have to deal with it is always better to take a look at what you could do better instead of pointing out what they are doing wrong.

Never give your power away by blaming outside circumstances for your internal state of being.

Make the inside pure, make the fountain pure, and all will be pure :)

Source

@RobinThicke – Blurred Lines ft. @TIP , Pharrell

@Rihanna – Pour It Up Remix ft @YoungJeezy, @RickyRozay, Juicy J & @TIP

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Lil Wayne – God Bless Amerika [I Am Not A Human Being 2 (Album)] @liltunechi

Malaria NO MORE! Be Part Of The Solution And Donate Today To Help Eradicate Malaria In Africa @syracuseKPL

Malaria NO MORE!

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The sisters of Kappa Phi Lambda Sorority, Incorporated at Syracuse University have taken a pledge to fundraise $1,995 for Malaria No More in honor of our founding year and to celebrate Spirit of the Phoenix.

We are very proud and honored to be the VERY FIRST sorority in the nation to participate in this project. Greeks raise millions of dollars for charity and participate in countless community service hours that help others who need it. It’s who we are. We’re philanthropic and service minded and we’re proud of it.

Just $1 will provide a life-saving treatment to a child in Africa with malaria. We need your help! Would you please consider making a tax deductible donation to my effort? You can give online by making a donation on this page.

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10 Ways To Travel The World As A Poor 20-Something

10 Ways To Travel As A Poor 20-Something

10 Ways To Travel As A Poor 20-Something

Book your flight months out

Flights will be significantly cheaper if you book them months in advance (duh). Plus, your bank account will be so horrifically low you’ll think twice before hopping in a cab, clicking the banner ad to learn more about unlimited music on Pandora, or buying a green swizzle chair from FAB.com.

Only be an alcoholic at home

I’m not going to tell you to stop drinking all together, because seriously — you just spent your life savings on a plane ticket to Sri Lanka. You need a drink. But have you ever stopped to think how that $8 glass of wine you’re drinking came from a $9 bottle? Learn to enjoy getting inebriated at home (besides hey! My bedroom is right here!) or at least resist the urge to drop mad money on tequila shots and craft beer during a night out. Do it in the comfort of your own home instead, where buying a six pack will be a little cheaper and a bottle of Jose can go a long way.

10 Ways To Travel As A Poor 20-Something

Pray none of your friends are getting married

And if they are, politely decline and send a friendly e-card wishing them a happily ever after. If it’s a close friend? Buy them a small plot of land in Kentucky.

Learn to cook

Shut it, Seamless. Cook your own meals and save some money while you’re at it. Just fry some eggs, throw in canned black beans and salsa, toast some bread, and you’re good to go. Need something more fancy? One cup of cooked quinoa can feed you for a century, and even a fresh filet of sole from the grocery store will cost you less than a salad you can buy at the airport.

Starve at the airport

Speaking of, don’t buy food at the airport. A bag of Chex Mix is $7.99 and a bottle of water upwards of $4. And unless the airline offers free booze, the kick off to your vacation doesn’t mean the in-flight $7 Heineken Light is worth it. Just pop another Ambien and wait it out.

10 Ways To Travel As A Poor 20-Something

Stay in hostels

Even though hostels can be a huge pain in the ass (I have to go on the top bunk? Do you promise to lock the room up so my shit doesn’t get stolen? You call that a pillow?) they are significantly cheaper than any private hotel room. Traveling with a S.O. you’ll want to have sexual relations with? Think back to how you made it work with forced triples in college.

Eat the local food

Cheap street food? Totally safe. That gourmet plate whipped up behind closed doors at a restaurant? You can’t even see where it’s coming from.

Take public transportation

Cabs may be super convenient, especially if you have no idea where you’re going and don’t want to be cramped on a hot bus and stared at for your pale skin and urge to whip out your phone every two minutes to take a picture of every weird ass billboard on the street. But! Taking a bus is usually loads cheaper than any cab. Plus, it makes you feel less like a tourist and more like one of them.

Don’t get your wallet stolen

This will save you a lot of money.

10 Ways To Travel As A Poor 20-Something

Buy souvenirs at the end

I know it’s day two and that bracelet looks really cool and you want to buy a shirt for your sister and maybe even that pretty hand-painted ceramic bowl and hip looking bag so you can show off to all your friends, indirectly, how well-traveled you are. But chances are you’ll probably be ripped off until you have a better sense of how much things should cost. So save the gift search until the end of the trip. Plus, that means less shit to carry throughout your travels.

By Laura Schwecherl 

Popular Movie Pictures With Guns Replaced by THUMBS

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“Real tough guys don’t need guns, they just need a positive, can-do attitude,” according to “Thumbs & Ammo,” a blog featuring user-submitted photoshopped versions of famous movie scenes with a slight twist–the gun has been turned into a “thumbs-up.” “Pulp Fiction” stars don’t need shotguns when they have thumbs on their side. (Thumbs & Ammo)

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Sylvester Stallone just cancelled his order for more body bags in “Rambo.” (Thumbs & Ammo )

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Steve Buscemi doesn’t seem to mind being called “Mr. Pink” by Harvey Keitel in “Reservoir Dogs.” (Thumbs & Ammo )
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Arnold Schwarzenegger is back as… the Thumbinator. (Thumbs & Ammo )
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Keanu Reeves and Hugo Weaving go all digital on each other in “The Matrix.” (Thumbs & Ammo )
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Hey Bruce Willis, what are your thoughts on using time travel as a plot device? Sweet, seems he likes it as much as we loved “Looper.” (Thumbs & Ammo )
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Tom Cruise seems pretty cool with having an exploding chip planted into his head in “Mission Impossible III.” (Thumbs & Ammo )
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The most feared item in Batman’s utility belt? Not the Bat-A-Rang, but the Batthumb. To add your own amazing thumbs-upped version of your favorite movie scene, contact: “Thumbs & Ammo.” (Thumbs & Ammo )

Kenya Elections: Detailed Summary of the CORD Petition

Kenya Elections: Summary of the CORD Petition

What the Petitioner (Hon. RailaOdinga) is asking the court to do:

Set aside the results of the Presidential election as announced by IEBC on 9 March 2013, and the declaration of Uhuru Kenyatta as President-elect and William Ruto as Deputy President-elect respectively, and declare as null and void the whole electoral process leading to that declaration.

What the petition says

  • There were no free or fair presidential elections. Consequently no government could lawfully be formed by or from the purported declaration on 9th March 2013, of Uhuru Kenyatta and William Ruto as President-elect and Deputy President-elect respectively, by the IEBC and its chairman to the dishonor of the Kenyan people.
  • The voter register was severally altered as to make it difficult to tell which one was used finally.  For the purposes of the 4th March elections the registration of voters was carried out between 19November 2012 to 18th December, 2012, at the end of which the IEBC announced that 14,337,399 persons had registered as voters.
  • In breach of the mandatory legal requirement, the IEBC has falsely, unlawfully and illegally in flagrant disregard of the law and its declaration of the result of the presidential election held on the 4th March, 2013 reflected the total number of registered voters as 14,352,533 well above the total number of registered voters as the date of closing of registration on 18th December, 2013. Indeed, during February 2013, the IEBC announced that they had discovered approximately 20,000 persons who had double registered in the December registration, and accordingly reduced the register tally to 14,267,572 voters as displayed on its website. The illegally inflated March 2013 register exceeded this corrected figure by some 85,000 voters.
  • The Petitioner avers that increasing the number of registered voters was intended to permit the IEBC to manipulate the presidential election held on 4th March, 2013 and their purported results and declaration, on 9th March, 2013 was null and void. That by abandoning the process of electronic identification at the polling stations and releasing results based not on the safeguarded, agreed, determined and credible electoral process it had promised and committed to, and by which legitimate expectations accrued, but a process that failed so significantly, substantially and endemically, IEBC effectively failed to reflect the will of the Kenyan people at the election.
  • Arising from the acts and omissions of the IEBC, Hon. Raila Odinga and indeed the people of Kenya, were deprived of a free and fair election devoid of manipulation, an expectation which was denied, thereby irreparably undermining the entire process and result as declared on 9th March, 2013.
  • Because of the IEBC and its chairman’s acts and omissions, the electoral process and the outcome thereof is so flawed in so fundamental and grave a sense, taken together or viewed separately, that it is difficult to tell whether the results were the true, lawful and proper expression of the Kenyan people’s will.
  • The EVID and BVR system and the electronic results transmission systems adopted by the First Respondent were so poorly selected, designed and implemented that they were destined to fail from inception, to the knowledge of the IEBC; the failure and collapse, on a catastrophic scale on the polling day, so fundamentally changed the system of polling and the number of votes cast, owing to inordinate and inexplicable delays at the polling stations thereby reverting Kenya to the discredited manual system, with all the attendant risks and opportunities for abuse and manipulation which in fact took place.
  • The IEBC and its chairman’s purported official tally of registered voters inexplicably and mysteriously grew overnight by a large proportion on the eve of the election, notwithstanding that registration had closed some thirty days and was by law not permitted to be opened or changed.
  • The results as declared and recorded by IEBC contained wide spread instances of manipulation of the returns through manipulation of Form 36 and in some instances the votes cast exceeding the numbers of registered voters, in flagrant breach of the fundamental Constitutional principles (see examples below).
  • Although a common register was to be – and indeed was – compiled for all the six levels of elections in the general elections of 4th March, 2013, it turned out from the results declared by IEBC that the total number of registered voters and votes cast in respect of the presidential elections in some instances exceeded that of the registered voters and those cast for Parliamentary elections after taking due account of any spoilt or rejected or disputed votes to the detriment of RailaOdinga. The numerous instances of huge discrepancies in the total numbers of votes declared by the First and Second Respondent in the presidential election held on 4th March, 2013 is inexplicable upon any reasonable hypothesis other than the existence of actual ballot stuffing, multiple voting or gerrymandering or inflating of the numbers of votes in the tallying thereof by the IEBC or their officers or their condoning of or connivance in the same to the advantage of Uhuru and Ruto thereby rendering their alleged win invalid, illegal, null and void.

Anecdotal examples of widespread anomalies

Glaring anomalies were observed in the process from voter registration, to transmission of results, to tallying.
(a) the result were declared on the basis of unsigned Form 36,
(b) multiplicity of Form 36, and variants of entries in some constituencies
(c) alterations on files and
(d) brazen disregard by the IEBC of the entries on the files of constituencies which were eventually reflected in the final tally of Presidential election results and which were announced without signed verification Form 34s.

Votes cast exceeded the number of registered voters, including Tiaty, Laisamis, Igembe Central, Buri, Chuka, IburiIgambaNgombe, Lari, Kapenguria, Saboti, Turbo, Marakwet West, Kajiado West, Bomet East, Mt Elgon, Langata and Aldai.

Results in Form 36 disclosed by the First Respondent were materially different from the results that were posted in the final tally of the presidential results published by the First Respondent. This included in Webuye East, Webuye West and Igembe Constituencies.

Registered voter numbers in polling stations were inflated in Form 34 contrary to what was contained in Form 36. These included Kaproi Nursery School, Metipso Primary School, Maina Primary School, asaibul Primary School, Sewerwa Nursery School, Liter Secondary School, Chesongoch Catholic Church, Mungiwa Primary School, Chawich Primary School and Lemeuywo Primary School. In most of those circumstances, more votes were cast than the total number of registered voters.

More than two Form 36 reflecting different returns. These included Kikuyu Constituency, Juja Constituency, Chuka Constituency, Thika Constituency.

Alterations in Form 36 without acknowledgment including Kiambaa and Limuru Constituencies.

More valid votes cast in some constituencies reflected in Forms 36 than in Form 34 including in Chesumei, Emngwen and Ainamoi.

Different entries in two Forms 36 submitted in respect of the same constituency for example in Mathira Constituency.

Published results materially different from the results reflected in the County tallying, for example in Nakuru, not to mention the material variation between the verbal declaration made by the various Commissioners of IEBC at the national tallying centre allegedly after verification of results and the fiinal figures which are set out by the IEBC including those of South Imenti, Igembe South, Lagdera, North Imenti, Central Imenti, Bomet East and Sigor.

Highlights/Quotes from the affidavit

“I believe that First and Second Respondents in breach of the Constitution, failed to establish systems which are accurate, secure, verifiable, accountable and/or transparent and indeed declared results which in many instances had no relation to votes cast at the polling station, developed methods which were opaque and intended to manipulate the results in the course of which the Petitioners’ representatives were altogether excluded from the process.”

” In the final tally, the total number of votes cast in the Presidential Elections differed materially from those declared by the First and Second Respondents for purposes of the Gubernatorial and Parliamentary elections which took place on the same date clearly attesting to my belief that massive electoral fraud and malpractice occurred or permitted to occur by the First and Second Respondents in contravention of the requirements of the Constitution and the legislative framework in place as regards the 4th March, 2013 presidential election.”

Highlights/quotes from the petition/re electronic system

“its failure and collapse, on a catastrophic scale on the polling day, so fundamentally changed the system of polling and the number of votes cast, owing to inordinate and inexplicable delays at the polling stations thereby reverting Kenya to the discredited manual system, with all the attendant risks and opportunities for abuse and manipulation which in fact took place; “

“Respondents in breach of the Constitution, failed to establish systems which are accurate, secure, verifiable, accountable and/or transparent and indeed declared results which in many instances had no relation to votes cast at the polling station, developed methods which were opaque and intended to manipulate the results in the course of which the Petitioners’ representatives were altogether excluded from the process.”

“the numerous instances of huge discrepancies in the total numbers of votes declared by the First and Second Respondent in the presidential election held on 4th March, 2013 is inexplicable upon any reasonable hypothesis other than the existence of actual ballot stuffing, multiple voting or gerrymandering or inflating of the numbers of votes in the tallying”

“A curious and very concerning feature of the First Respondent’s conduct was that it allowed Kencall to co-host both its server and that of the TNA, which of course may compromise the integrity of the electoral process but at very least gives the very real impression that the TNA has access to sort of information which is at the very least initially confidential to the First Respondent.”

Source

Music Video: Justin Timberlake – Mirrors x The 20/20 Experience

[Verse 1]
Aren’t you somethin’ to admire
Cause your shine is somethin’ like a mirror
And I can’t help but notice
You reflect in this heart of mine
If you ever feel alone and
The glare makes me hard to find
Just know that I’m always
Parallel on the other side

[Bridge]
Cause with your hand in my hand and a pocket full of soul
I can tell you there’s no place we couldn’t go
Just put your hand on the past
I’m here tryin’ to pull you through
You just gotta be strong

[Chorus]
Cause I don’t wanna lose you now
I’m lookin’ right at the other half of me
The vacancy that sat in my heart
Is a space that now you hold
Show me how to fight for now
And I’ll tell you, baby, it was easy
Comin’ back into you once I figured it out
You were right here all along
It’s like you’re my mirror
My mirror staring back at me
I couldn’t get any bigger
With anyone else beside me
And now it’s clear as this promise
That we’re making
Two reflections into one
Cause it’s like you’re my mirror
My mirror staring back at me, staring back at me

[Verse 2]
Aren’t you somethin’, an original
Cause it doesn’t seem really as simple
And I can’t help but stare, cause
I see truth somewhere in your eyes
I can’t ever change without you
You reflect me, I love that about you
And if I could, I
Would look at us all the time

[Bridge]

[Chorus]

[Break]
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow’s a mystery
I can see you lookin’ back at me
Keep your eyes on me
Baby, keep your eyes on me

[Chorus 2x]

You are, you are the love of my life

[Verse 3]
Baby, you’re the inspiration of this precious song
And I just wanna see your face light up since you put me on
So now I say goodbye to the old me, it’s already gone
And I can’t wait wait wait wait wait to get you home
Just to let you know, you are

[Chorus]

[Verse 4]
Girl you’re my reflection, all I see is you
My reflection, in everything I do
You’re my reflection and all I see is you
My reflection, in everything I do

[Chorus]

Lil Wayne – Mirror (Remix) Feat. Rick Ross and Bruno Mars

Tracklist: Lil Wayne – I Am Not A Human Being II (To be released on March 26)

Lil Wayne – I Am Not A Human Being II (Track List)

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1. IANAHB
2. Curtains (feat. Boo)
3. Days and Days (feat. 2 Chainz)
4. Gunwalk (feat. Gudda Gudda)
5. No Worries (feat. Detail)
6. Back To You
7. Trigger Finger (feat. Soulja Boy)
8. Beat The sh*t (feat. Gunplay)
9. Rich As fu*k (feat. 2 Chainz)
10. Trippy (feat. Juicy J)
11. bi*ches Love Me (feat. Drake & Future)
12. Romance
13. God Bless Amerika
14. My Homies Still (feat. Big Sean)
15. Lay It Down (feat. Nicki Minaj)

Lil Wayne’s next album, “I Am Not A Human Being Part 2,” drops March 26th.

10 Myths that are not Myths

Myths and urban legends are the stories that we hear and pass on for their unbelievable yet fascinating facts. We want to believe some of them so badly that we take affront when someone tells us otherwise. It is hard to distinguish between fact and fiction and sometimes, the most unbelievable stories are the ones that are true. A good for instance of this is the man who supposedly died at his desk at work on Monday yet no one noticed he was dead until the following Saturday. While this is not true, Ignacio Mendez died on a New York subway early one morning and rode the train all day long before being discovered as having taken his last ride. Of course, the exaggerated version has him sitting there for days instead of hours. Here is a list of ten myths that most people believe to be false. Each one is true.

 A Large percentage of U.S. Currency Contains Cocaine

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Head for your bank and withdraw all your money. Make sure you ask for it in ones and then insist that it be counted using a counting machine. When they have counted it, insist that they count it again. Several studies have proven that U.S. bills are saturated with cocaine. Well, maybe saturated is too strong of a word. One in five (some studies suggest) have at least traces of cocaine on them. The problem is that cocaine power is so fine that one bill with cocaine on it will contaminate a counting machine which in turn will contaminate hundreds of other bills (or more.) Counting machines can become contaminated and fan the other bills they count, spreading the wealth, so to speak.

Another study tested more than 135 bills collected from all over the country randomly and all but four tested positive for traces of coke. Do not go licking your wallet just yet. Money also carries all sorts of other nasty germs including the flu and any thing else you can catch from touch or saliva. (Catch a cold, sneeze on a twenty and hand it to a friend, if you do not believe me.)

Besides, the traces are so small that your tongue will fall off before you get high.

Water Heated in a Microwave Can Explode

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Your microwave oven is not out to get you. It merely wishes to give you a lesson in common sense. If you heat water in a microwave oven, and you do not have something else in the water for the microwaves to heat, either a teabag or a wooden utensil, someone could get hurt. It all depends on how long you heat the water. The problem is that water in a pot or other container is allowed to convert to steam as the water’s temperature rises. In the microwave, the opportunity is not there and when you remove the cup from the oven, the conversion to steam could be abrupt causing the water to “explode.” Whenever you heat a liquid in a microwave, always set it to just the amount of time you need for it to become hot. Never attempt to boil liquid in a microwave because it just will not happen.

Not long ago there were videos on youtube showing people cooking popcorn on their coffee table by taking the magnetron out of the microwave oven. Please do not do this. Those videos were faked and the pictures on that website photo shopped. A magnetron tuned on in a room would start cooking you within a matter of minutes using anything metal to focus the microwaves, even metals inside the walls of the room. Just a few minutes are enough to damage your eyes and cook your brain. You might not notice the effects immediately, but soon after, your eyesight would either be damaged or gone and you might not know what happened, depending on how much brain damage you sustain. Remember, microwaves cook from the inside out.

Student mistakenly solves an “Impossible” Math Problem as Homework

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If the human mind is unhindered by thoughts of doubt, it can achieve just about anything. No one told George Bernard Dantzig that a math equation on the board in a class he was late for was a problem that no one to date had been able to solve, including Einstein. Since he was late, he missed the professor telling the other students to work the first two problems on the board. He did not hear the instructions saying that the third problem would be beyond anyone’s grasp. So what did George do without knowing it was impossible? (or at least improbable.) He solved it. Thus proving once again why the idiots of the world always seem to have all the luck while those of us who slave away at something never seem to achieve all of our goals. They just do not know any better. That is not to say that the child who jumps out of a ten-story window can fly simply because no one has told him he cannot. Nor does it prove the existence of the fat man in the red suit that lives at the North Pole. Belief in something does not make it true, only the knowledge that you are confined to limitations can hold you back when you put your mind to something. The movie Good Will Hunting was taken from this true urban legend.

Coca Cola Used to Contain Cocaine

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While it is true that coke used to have cocaine in the list of ingredients that made the now famous soft drink famous, many of the myths attached to the truth are merely myths. Coke had such an infinitesimal amount of cocaine in it that no one was being hooked on it. Parents were not locking their purses and wallets away from the kids to keep them from stealing the rent money and buying up coke. Nor were they knocking over drug stores to steal their supply of coke. If that had been the case, I am sure that my great uncle Eddie, scoundrel that he was, would have been on the docks handing out samples to the immigrants he hoped to supply from the dark alleys and pool halls. To believe that an entire generation was addicted to coca cola is a pretty big pill to swallow. It did have enough in it, however, to make you really feel refreshed and somewhat thirsty for another. That can also be said of the sugar content in today’s soft drinks and the effect was no where close to what the apparent wave of energy drink users feel in almost all of our households right now. Coke added life, not a life of addiction. At least now, we know why our grandparents had a coke and a smile.

Eat Celery for Negative Calories

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Fatties of the world rejoice! We finally have a myth about diet food that is actually true, with a few little obstacles of course. The myth that celery is a negative calorie food is true to a certain extent. You actually burn more calories eating it than it provides. Many people are under the false assumption that the act of chewing celery is burning all of these calories but chewing burns about the same amount of calories as breathing, which is approximately zero. The trick is in the digestive tract. There are some forms of plant cellulose that we, as humans, cannot digest. Celery falls squarely into this category. The amount of calories your body burns trying to digest this plant is greater than the amount of calories it contains. Do not get excited yet, as it is not a feasible way to lose much weight. The amounts we are talking about here are negligible.

However, there are other foods that you can choose when trying to lose weight, like the grape, which only contains about 70 calories per one hundred grams. By the way, that other myth about water filling you up so you do not eat as much is somewhat true, except we all know that it does not stop us from eating. However, it will increase the effectiveness of celery (and other diet foods) as the body has to expend more energy to warm the liquid to body temperature so that it can be processed. Hey, every little bit helps. I know this sounds cliché but always consult with your physician or nutritionist before you begin a new diet and/or exercise program. You want to be thin, not dead.

The State of Michigan Threatened Beavers With $10,000 Per Day Fine

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Warning all beavers, if you enjoy living harassment free on someone’s property, fill out and submit the proper forms before building and/or maintaining a dam on said property. Otherwise, you might be the cause of state inspectors stepping in bear shit as they come out to tear down your handiwork. The state of Michigan or possibly Pennsylvania does not make a distinction between man and beast when it comes to sending threatening certified letters to its residents. Apparently, a lazy state inspector and upholder of the statutes and codes of his state, upon receiving a complaint from a landowner’s neighbor, sent out just such a letter saying that his property had been inspected and the owner was breaking the law by building and maintaining two dams in the creek or stream that ran through his property. The dams had broken and the excess water could have caused serious damage. The landowner called his dam bluff, suspecting that the overzealous caseworker had not done any kind of dam inspection nor had ever picked his fat ass out of his office chair when it was not absolutely necessary. If he had, he would have known that beavers built the dam and not the owner. It is a damn shame when damn bureaucrats won’t allow a damn landowner to attend his own damn dam problems without telling a damn lie about it. Too late, the DAMage is done, dammit.

Note: Webster definition of bureaucrat: An official who works by fixed routine without exercising intelligent judgment.

Avoid Hospitals in July like the Plague

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Ah, July…, that wonderful month of picnics, vacations, wedding, and hospital deaths. Huh? You read correctly. There are a great many teaching hospitals in the world. Teaching hospitals are simply hospitals where new doctors learn to become old doctors, usually on their way to a nice, undemanding private practice. You would think that these hospitals and their apprentice doctors would be particularly careful at this stage of their reputations and careers. So why is it that the mortality rates go up as much as four percent in July? This is the time of year when new doctors are released from their cages and allowed to fly on their own. The problem, according to new research, is not the doctor’s hands-on treatment; rather, it is in the prescribing of medications and their doses that is doing people in. The new doctor has to get some practice in before he actually gets good at it so July is basically guinea pig month. Unfortunately, once the fatality rates rise, they stay risen for the rest of the year.

If you must get sick, the winter and spring is the time to do it. Of course, insurance companies and in particular, Medicare is on a trend to try to save money by forcing doctors to release patients earlier than their stays should be. This tactic completely backfired as patients wind up back in the hospital within a month; costing the insurance company more in the end than if the patient had stayed for full treatment in the first place. Guess what, either they did not get that memo or they do not believe it because the push is still on. Maybe they are playing the long run odds.

Cricket Thermometer

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Amos Dolbear had entirely too much time on his hands. This noted physicist figured out that you can tell the outside temperature by counting cricket chirps. This popular method of telling the temperature is often discounted as a myth by those who have tried and not succeeded. This is simply due to their lack of knowing the proper procedure. First of all, only male crickets chirp which just goes to prove that in nature, as well as life, men make the best weathermen. Since women are better gossips, they should stick to the anchor desk. Now all you have to do is accurately count the number of chirps in 14 seconds and then add 40. The farmer’s almanac already knew this trick.

Another proven method is to wait for your husband to go to sleep, count the number of times he farts in an hour and then add his current age. That should give you and accurate temperature reading.

A Physician Weighted the Human Soul Using a Scale

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If you were to stack five nickels on a scale, you would have the same weight as the human soul. This is the postulated outcome of the experiments of a man obsessed with the human soul and his ability to prove its existence. Twenty one grams, the outcome of the experiment and the name of a movie starring Sean Penn (among others) seems like a lot when speaking about something you can neither see or touch. The strange study was conducted by Dr. Duncan MacDougall of Massachusetts who devoted the last 13 years of his life either thinking about the weight of the soul, studying the weight of the soul, or defending the findings and techniques used to measure the weight of the soul. Many thought him foolish. Others, mostly in the medical profession, thought him mad, the rest of the world watched in hopeful anticipation.

Dr. MacDougall’s finding have to be questioned whether you believe in the existence of an everlasting soul or not. The time of death used in his experiments is the main concern when considering the actual ability to conduct accurate tests. In science, accuracy is of the utmost importance. There are four deaths that will occur at the end of a human life. First, there is a legal death that widely depends on the laws of the country or even the state in which it occurs. This, of course, had no bearing on the outcome of the experiment. There is the death of the cells and their ability to grow, regenerate, or conduct activity. Some consider the moment of death as occurring when the brain dies, or ceases to function. While this is a measurable death, there is no indication whether Dr. MacDougall was monitoring it. All of these functions amount to the time of physical death. The question then remains; what was the determining factor used to calculate the time of death in the tests, legal, cellular, brain activity, or physical. The moment we stop breathing is very different from the moment in which we physically die. With all of this in mind, something happened that no one could explain. Many may make conjecture but since no one has carried on the good doctors work, we will have to wait for science to become interested enough to figure it out.

Dogs are Raised For Food In China

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Now we tread on a very slippery slope. Americans, the Swiss, and many other countries find the eating of dogs to be an abomination of animal cruelty laws instigated in our countries. The Chinese, however, have no such laws. (at all) They feel that dogs, in particular the Saint Bernard are just good eatin’. The have restaurants like the Gourou Wang Restaurant in Beijing, (Formerly known as Peking.) that are dedicated to the dog. The name actually means “The Dog King” in Chinese. Not only do the Chinese think of the Saint Bernard as food, they believe it is a powerful male aphrodisiac. To enhance the power of this use, the dog has to be tortured right before death to get its adrenalin flowing. Only adrenalin juiced dog meat, it seems, is potent enough to help fat, lazy Chinamen get it up.

However, who are we to tell China what to eat? Do not a people of any nation have the right to choose what food is and what is not? Is anyone so brazen and full of himself or herself that they can collectively condemn a culture based on its choice of food, particularly one that goes back before many nations were even formed? What if China felt that eating sushi was an abomination and a right that Japan should not be allowed to exercise. How would we react if India suddenly decided that the sacred cow should be a protected animal. Would we even consider not eating beef? Hey, you can leave my Sunday barbeque alone, Jack. (It’s what’s for dinner!) The only thing to do is to let the powers that be decide what is food and what is not.

I would not like a billion screaming Chinese over here protecting their right to chose what they have for supper. You have to wonder though, what the Chinese would think if we decided to have Panda for desert. Can we at least find a way to induce adrenaline in Saint Bernard’s without torturing the poor animals? Nuff said.

5 Reasons Why You Should Consider Blogging

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Some argue that blogging is passé, but nothing could be further from the truth. Available tools enable all of us to express ourselves, share our views and especially knowledge and experience with a much wider audience than ever before. I really believe that everyone should and can blog. Indeed, it’s not surprising to anyone who knows me that that is a reason why Zemanta is part of my life: to make blogging easier for everyone.

Last weekend I read Antonio Cangiano’s (IBM) great blog post on why every professional should consider blogging. It inspired me to think more about why we all should do it. Here are my five main reasons why you should at least consider blogging if you’re not already doing it.

1. Blogging improves your storytelling skills

Blogging is about storytelling, either in words, with pictures, videos or podcasts. Storytelling is nowadays essential part of (content) marketing. But storytelling isn’t so much about talent; it’s a skill that needs constant nurture. Practice makes you better. And blogging is a perfect opportunity to polish your storytelling skills.

2. Blogging improves your communication skills
By polishing your storytelling skills, you also improve your communication skills. Are you shy, introverted, do you have low self-esteem, maybe you don’t know how to sell yourself? Blogging will help you overcome these obstacles. Communication essentially means to convey information to others. The better your communication skills the better you can sell your ideas, skills and knowledge to others. This is one of the reasons why I started blogging in the first place.

3. Sharing is caring
I am a whole-hearted advocate of the philosophy that knowledge is to be shared. Blogging can be a great platform for sharing what you’ve learned and know with others who may be interested in what you have to say and learn from you so they can improve their lives.

4. Position yourself as a thought leader
Blogging helps you build corporate and personal credibility. This is how you can position yourself as a thought leader in the marketplace. Indeed, thought leaders are perceived experts and everyone is expert in something. When done right, blogging can give thought leaders great visibility in the search engine results. Therefore, blogging connects you with others. That’s how great blogging can be.

5. Blogging builds your personal information repository
This is another reason why I decided to blog. Every day we are bombarded with tons of information we try to consume. Every one of us has his/her own way of looking for particular information. Blogging, however, helps archive information you will sooner or later need again. I regularly browse my blog and in this way remind myself of issues, solutions, and ideas I might have already forgotten, but are still useful. Sometimes it’s fun and a bit of an ego boost (we all need it from time to time) to check how far you’ve come.

Kenyan Student in America Pursues Medical School in Hopes of Returning to Kenya to Help the Sick

At only ten years of age, Jen Wanjohi sat next to her aunt who was battling ovarian cancer and felt helpless as she struggled and eventually died because her family wasn’t able to get her adequate medicine and equipment to prolong her life.

The experience was traumatizing for Wanjohi, but she promised herself that she would one day become a doctor so she could help to prevent another family from ever feeling the pain her family went through.

“It breaks my heart that people in some countries don’t have the technology or medicine to get better,” she revealed.

She moved to the United States (US) with her younger sister when she was 12 to join her father and mother who had made the trip abroad after her mother won a green card two years before.

Her mother was the first to leave and her father joined her a month later, leaving Wanjohi and her sister with their grandparents until they had secured jobs and a place to live in the US.

“It was terrible being apart from my parents for that long and I remember my mom sending us letters, but every time I didn’t get a letter for a few weeks I’d get really anxious and nervous and think they forgot about us,” she revealed.

“There were some really mean people here who would say that they forgot about us and that was very depressing,” she added.

After six months her parents moved to Newark, New Jersey and secured jobs and an apartment and a year later they sent for her and her sister to join them.

“We came to the US with our friend’s dad and he had to pretend he was our dad so that we could get through customs,” she said.

“I knew that coming here I’d get better opportunities in terms of education and I don’t think I would have had this many opportunities if we had remained in Kenya,” she added.

Adjusting to America proved to be difficult for Wanjohi as she was introduced to people from many different cultures and backgrounds at the school she attended in Newark.

“Trying to fit in was very challenging because I wasn’t American which made it hard for me to relate to them,” she said.

“I found myself becoming friends with kids from Bangladesh, Asia and Ukraine because they were going through many of the same challenges I was going through,” she explained.

Struggling to acclimate to the diversity in Newark, she found herself unable to comprehend the cold weather and snow in her new environment.

“My first reaction to snow was ‘oh wow this is so cool’ but after awhile I got really sick of it,” she said.

“Having to wear layers and layers was terrible. The first time I went out in the snow I had to wear three pairs of pants, two pairs of socks, boots, a sweater, two t-shirts and a big jacket on top so it was really uncomfortable to move around and taking the layers off when indoors and having to put them back to get outdoors was very annoying,” she explained.

Learning to speak ‘American’ English also proved to be a challenge.

“I learned British English while in Kenya. I remember asking my teacher for a rubber because I need an eraser and she looked at me horrified and said ‘I’m sorry, what did you ask for?’” she recalled

“I eventually had to bring my piece of paper to her desk and demonstrate what I meant and she told me ‘in America, we call them erasers’,” she added.

Wanjohi also faced instances of ignorance and prejudice from her peers because she was from Kenya.

“I remember people had the nerve to ask me such stupid questions like ‘did you have a pet lion?’ and I would respond with ‘yes, I have a pet lion and his name is Simba and I also ride an elephant to school’,” she said.

“People don’t understand that what they see on TV is far from the truth. When I tell people I lived Nairobi and I show them pictures, they’re astonished because the media only shows you the worst parts. Yes, we have our bad parts, but there’s more to Kenya then what they show on TV,” she emphasised.

Ignorance, language and weather proved to be the least of her concerns while they lived in Newark as her and her sister witnessed a gang related murder just a block from their apartment.

“It was a summer night and my sister and I were supposed to be sleeping and we heard gun shots outside of our apartment complex,” she recounted.

“We rushed to the window to see what was going on and we saw a group of four high school boys get shot execution style. They were forced to face a wall and were shot in the back of the head,” she said.

Three of them died and another one was paralyzed and police later discovered that a Latino gang was responsible after forcing some of its prospective members to commit the murders as part of their initiation.

The perpetrators were arrested and put in jail, but soon after Wanjohi’s parent’s decided to move the family out of the area to Manville, a New Jersey suburb, for safety reasons.

To keep her mind off the constant distractions going on in her life, she committed herself to school and doing community service.

“I joined sports such as track, cross country and basketball and I was part of many clubs which helped me pick up the American culture,” she noted.

“My accent slowly went away but unfortunately my Swahili and Kikuyu deteriorated rapidly,” she revealed.

Wanjohi said that despite the distractions and challenges of adjusting to the new culture, her greatest difficulty was trying to adapt to America while maintaining her Kenyan identity.

“We mostly speak English in the house and my parents only talk to me in Swahili or Kikuyu when they’re really mad at me,” she said.

“I go to a Kenyan church and I maintain communication with my Kenyan friends here so that I can practice my Swahili and Kikuyu,” she added.

Between balancing sports, community service and her attempts at maintaining her Kenyan identity, Wanjohi excelled in class and as a senior at Manville high school she is ranked second in her class with a 4.0 Grade Point Average (GPA).

Thanks to her exploits in the class room and within the community, she earned a scholarship to Rutgers University will she hopes to follow up with pharmaceutical or medical school.

“I’ve done a lot of community service because it’s something I really enjoy to do,” she said.

“I was a member of the Arc of Somerset, a nonprofit organization that provides services and advocacy for individuals with developmental disabilities and their families to support development & achievement at every stage of life,” she explained.

She has also been the captain of her cross country team for two years and she’s been involved with Key Club, another community service based organization as well as being part of the academic organisation, the National Honors Society.

“Rutgers awarded me various scholarships and aid from the government and my school gave me $3000 (Sh256,123) worth of scholarships from the various organizations I worked with in the community,” she said.

Wanjohi admitted that as the first born, she has always felt like the guinea pig in her family for everything.

Newark City

“I had to learn about the school system such as SATS, ACTS, applying for colleges and other important things related to making it through the system because my parents had no idea,” she explained.

“Everything I did was trial and error, but the mistakes I made will not be repeated for my younger siblings,” she added.

In the future, Wanjohi sees herself moving back and working in Kenya as a doctor.

“I want to be a Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) and I want to work with Doctors Without Borders,” she said confidently.

Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) is an international, independent, medical humanitarian organisation that delivers emergency aid to people affected by armed conflict, epidemics, natural disasters and exclusion from healthcare.

It offers assistance to people based on need, irrespective of race, religion, gender or political affiliation and Wanjohi said that she wants to work for them because they represent everything she believes in.

Follow Jennifer on Twitter: @sasasarafina

By Charles Gichane

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